Are any of the MN T-Girls transitioning?
As much as I cringe at the word, everyone, cis or trans, is on a journey. We are all at different points in our lives and as time passes we will continue to change and evolve.
That being said, some members are transitioning, some are still figuring that out, and others are perfectly content to going back and forth between gender presentations. The group has existed for almost ten years now and many girls have been members for almost as long. I have gotten to know so many amazing t-girls over the years and have been fortunate to see my friends evolve and change over time. Of course, this evolution and change isn’t necessarily transitioning, it can be more about becoming more comfortable and confident in who they are. It’s always amazing to have a t-girl attend her first monthly outing only to find out it’s their first time EVER leaving their home. Within a few months they are strutting confidently in a busy mall or have come out to their friends.
Of course, I am not immune to changing either. I have known for decades that transitioning wasn’t where my journey was going to take me. Despite countless times going out en femme and doing all sorts of things, I know that Hannah’s world, her life, isn’t where I want to live 24/7. I am happy to live two lives, to have two gender identities.
The changes I have gone through have more to do with becoming more comfortable in stepping out and interacting with the rest of the world. I care less about what others might think of me. It might sound a little strange, but I forget I am a t-girl when I am out in the real world. I am just a girl living her best life… for a little while, anyway. I always go back to my boy life but I have a good life regardless of my gender presentation and I am blessed to have options.
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