Walking in stilettos is an act of balance, confidence, and forward momentum. And if that’s not a metaphor for life then I don’t know what is. I am active online in three different ways. Flickr is for photos, my website is for photos, my writings, activism, reviews, and shameless self-promotion, Twitter is for quick thoughts and … Continue reading Life is Like a Shoebox of Stilettos
Yesterday I posted some thoughts and pictures from my first photo shoot of 2021. Typically the first outfit of a shoot shows excitement and confidence… but as the shoot progresses my energy starts to deplete. Sometimes my energy is strained because of a pose or from a pair of stilettos. Some shoots require a lot … Continue reading Wilted Flowers
Most of my photo shoots are for a reason. Some of them are for En Femme, some are the annual MN T-Girls shoot, some are for reviews, and some are just for fun. It’s easy to get burnt out on them, though. Don’t get me wrong, I heart them but they do take a lot … Continue reading Shine, Shine, Shine
I’ll tell my truth, I’ll speak from my heart, I’ll share my feelings to countless people online.But I am coy and vague in real life. If someone in real life brings up something I wrote about online, more than likely I will try to subtly change the subject. It’s easier for me to say what … Continue reading Baring More Than My Soul
There are certain colors that are.. “off limits” for boys. Pink, that’s a significant one, but there are others. Like lilac. Sure men might wear a lilac dress shirt, but it’s a light purple shirt, thank you very much. But come on, it’s lilac. And I heart lilac. I mean, it’s a beautiful flower and … Continue reading Lingerie in Lilac
Happy Trans Day of Visibility! This is a, well, I don’t want to say complicated day for those who are bi-gender and who identify as crossdressers, but it’s a reminder of how inclusive the term ‘transgender’ is. I think when most cis people think of the term they think of people like Elliot Page and … Continue reading Trans Day of Visibility
The most read articles on my website have to do with shopping, to some degree. It could be anything from finding one’s measurements, to how to try on clothes, how to determine your bra size, or simply feeling comfortable and welcomed when it comes to being in a store. My emails reflect this activity as … Continue reading Because I am Not Busy Enough
Of course The Breastform Store sells, well breast forms (and thigh pads!) but they also sell super cute lingerie. This cute teddy isn’t on their website at the moment but they do have a lot of other sexy options to choose from. I bought this teddy about a year ago and I love it. The … Continue reading Lovely Lingerie
I am getting my second COVID vaccination shot this week. And my God, I can’t wait. It feels like the end of a very traumatic moment. A very long moment. And I know that me getting the vaccine doesn’t really change the world. There are still countless people that are still waiting their turn. I … Continue reading What’s Next?
I buy my lingerie from a few different places online but the only lingerie boutique I frequent regularly (though not regularly enough) Is Allure. Allure has different locations throughout the country and are very accommodating to girls like us. In fact, I had a bra fitting there! Allure hosts private shopping events and the MN … Continue reading The Allure of Lingerie
