Is your wife included in both of your lifestyles?
Obviously my wife in included in my male life. It would be impossible to have a functional relationship if one’s partner wasn’t included.
My wife is the most important person in my entire life, regardless of which part of my world. She helped, and continues to help Hannah with my confidence and presentation and countless other little details.
She doesn’t accompany to my photo shoots or ‘Help Me, Hannah!’ filmings as, to be honest, are fairly boring to observe. It’s not unlike two people having a shared life with one another, but also knowing that each person has parts of their own lives and hobbies that help fulfill them. My wife has aspects to her life that make her happy that she does on her own, as does Hannah.
Love, Hannah
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Hannah McKnight 
Hi Hannah.
No, my significant other is entirely oblivious to my kinks. I simply cannot open up to her and this is concluded by a incident many years ago when she came home suddenly and caught me in a lingerie crossdressed state.
I have documented in a blog entries how I managed to live to tell the tale without losing everything I hold dear but that told me all I needed to know about how acceptable things would be, i.e., they wouldn’t be accepted.
Fiona’s presence in my life is a powerful one that I must increasingly comply with despite the many risks day to day.
There are occasional glimmers of a FLR – domestically, she wears the proverbial trousers in our relationship – but otherwise, these moments are always delivered in jest on her part, and received with desperate hope and resignation at the same time.
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The wife and I work and play together. It definitely has its challenges and rewards. As soul mates we don’t enjoy being apart for long periods. We enjoy just being with each other. Whether its laughter or sorrow. Celebrating 35 years together this month. I feel very grateful and lucky that we found each other. Happy anniversary babe! I love you. ❤
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I don’t have a wife to complicate my life. I’m happy living on my own.
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Hanna , my wife is very understanding and we do many things together as older girls, but I am also my other half for her too.
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My wife knew, accepted and partnered with me in everything over all of our 40 years together. We were soul mates, life partners, and girlfriends. Other than a couple of medical professionals, she was the only one that knew both of my worlds. It wasn’t until after she passed that I started coming out.
Lots of folks (over 300) from my past life had a one-on-one conversation with me on my coming out. I still hid my past life from those that only had known the authentic me, even to the point of not sharing my “dead” name with hardly anyone. I’ve recently heard from a friend that they use “legacy” name instead of dead name. I like that idea, and it has opened me up to more sharing. I’ll tag myself on his old posts, and share his memories to my timeline on Facebook. “He” got me to where I am today, and I’m very happy with where I am today, so he should get some of the credit.
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The Mrs. is not the least bit interested sharing my desire to dress. Does give me space to dabble, and knows I have a collection somewhere in the house. All things considered she would prefer the desire to cross dress just went away.
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None of us, I mean none of us, are in a position to judge or are qualified to define what each individual’s experience needs to look like. If you are able to successfully share your crossdressing with your significant other, great, however, this is not a prerequisite in being accepted within the Trans community. Each person’s experience is very individual. Putting parameters on how people need to be or qualify in the Trans community is concerning. We get enough judgement from the rest of the world. We don’t need it within the Trans community. The trans community consists of much more than married cross dressers who are out to their wives and don’t subscribe to other behaviors that others have.
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