Hello, I really love to know how I could be more femme. I am a very tall guy which I really hate.
There’s a zillion things you can do, and what makes one feel femme is different for everyone. For some nothing is more feminine than bright red nails, or a matching bra and panty set or literally anything else.
You specifically mention being very tall. How tall is too tall to be feminine? Remember, there is no standard that one has to meet to be a woman. I am also tall but once I learned to embrace my height I was that much happier. I used to want to blend in. I didn’t want to be noticed, I didn’t want to be seen. I thought being tall would make me stand out more. But I realized that I am going to stand out no matter what. I wear bright pink dresses. My makeup has more drama than a high school. There’s nothing about me that blends in, so why not wear whatever I want?
So I rock the sky-high heels and I am hard to miss. It’s funny, wearing tall heels makes me feel more feminine that I ever thought I could feel.
The best advice I ever heard about being a tall girl and heels was given by talk show host Wendy Williams. She says it better than I ever could.
The best thing we can do is embrace ourselves. Embrace all of you. Your height, your body, everything.
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I’m new to crossdressing, I have never dressed up in women’s clothes but want to. I am scared to this but if someone were to give me guidance I would love to do it. Another thing, I love the look of women wearing knee high riding boots and I want to see if I can pull that look.
I fully believe that crossdressing is something you learn my doing. However, I do have a guide that might help you get started.
You can also see if your city has any transformation services that may be able to help.
And yes, you look good in knee high boots. Everyone looks good in knee high boots.
I never thought there would be so many options when it comes to businesses that cater specifically to our community. I’ve been aware of Glamour Boutique for a while and I even did some modeling for them. There’s also Suddenly Femme, Xdress and HommeMystere.
I recently learned of another option for us. En Femme Style offers specially designed and engineered to express the feminine form and appeal. They sell shoes that go up to size 15, clothing, jewelry, wigs and more.
I recommend checking them out!
Winter fashion advice. One of the joys for me as a CD is when I wear dresses. And then January hits and everything freezes! My question pertains to legwear and shoes. Obviously tights ( one or two pair) are the most warm, but what kind of shoes are appropriate? And is it ok to wear more sheer stockings with open toed shoes or strappy heels? What’s a T girl to do?
I am totally the wrong girl to ask when it comes to appropriate shoes.
Yes, it’s cold out but unless I plan on spending a lot of time outside I usually will stick with what some would consider not-so-sensible shoes. If the weather doesn’t allow this, then I stick with knee-high boots.
Everyone is entitled to their own opinion and everyone can wear what they want, but I don’t think open-toed shoes go with non-nude stockings and tights. I am always wearing stockings and usually go with nude as I like how they show off my legs and even out my skin tone. Nude stockings will also allow me to wear open-toed heels, too.