Hi!
I have a new article for Pillow Talk, a new series I am doing with Xdress!
It has been a very long time since I dating, but every first date I ever went on I always wondered if it would turn into a second date and perhaps eventually into a relationship. And of course, I knew that there was always the chance I would have to have The Talk with them.
A first date does offer an opportunity to feel each other out to see if you are compatible and if they have the same values as you do. I am sure many of us always felt out whether or not this person was someone we could come out to and perhaps predict their reaction.
I am asked a lot WHEN someone should come out to someone they are dating. There’s really no specific time, but at the very latest you should have The Talk before any commitment is made, such as getting engaged or moving in with each other.
And yes, I feel that if you already know that you like panties (or anything else) that you should come out to them during the dating part of the relationship. It’s one thing to discover this aspect of yourself after years or marriage, but if you already know this about yourself, then it’s only fair -for both of you – to be honest with them.
Love, Hannah
Hannah McKnight 