Hi! I have a new article for Pillow Talk, a series I am doing with Xdress!

lol that is quite the image, isn’t it?
This post/article/blog/question/thing is a subject I am asked fairly often. Many of us are concerned about someone noticing that we are underdressing or wearing femme clothes. And I get it, I promise. I don’t want someone seeing my panties in male mode, either.
There’s no guarantee that no one will notice that your jeans are femme or that you are wearing a bra. If you are going to wear ANYTHING in male mode, such as clear nail polish, you need to accept that there is ALWAYS a chance that SOMEONE could notice.
Of course, that’s not a reassuring thought, but on the other hand, once you accept that someone noticing is inevitable, you can then decide on whether or not you CARE that they do.
If it helps, I don’t think most people will care what you’re wearing. I mean, I certainly don’t care about other people’s fashion choices, especially some random person I will never see again.
I do consider what I am doing or who I will see when I wear something that is not “for boys”. I don’t wear my femme jeans to family events, I don’t wear a bra when I go to the doctor.
But running errands? Anything goes.
Well, almost.
Love, Hannah