I read a lot, and I read almost anything anyone recommended to me when I was in my twenties. One novel I read was 'The Lord of the Rings' and my god it was a slog. I had a hard time staying engaged and I was very glad to be done with it. During COVID … Continue reading The Long Defeat
I found your website and I just wanted to say hello and thank you. I’m a beginning crossdresser and honestly feel a little lost. Your piece about shopping, makeup, and shaving made me feel such relief and gave me so many good, practical ideas. I especially like what you say about “passing.” I really just … Continue reading Ask Hannah!
Is there anything more humiliating than an annual performance review? In my career I don't have "goals" beyond doing enough to stay employed so I can continue to pay more mortgage and to stay under the radar from my boss. Everything is evaluated these days, everything is about metrics and top ten lists and the … Continue reading 2026 Performance Review
