Pillow Talk!

Hi! I have a new article for Pillow Talk, a series I am doing with Xdress! It's so easy to overthink sexuality, especially when there are, well, options when it comes to how one can identify. Straight, gay, bi, heteroflexible, pansexual... Like gender identity, these labels (god I hate that term when it comes to people) can be either affirming or limiting. … Continue reading Pillow Talk!

Overthinking Crossdressing – Part 1

I have a new article for The Breast Form Store!    Thinking is one of the hardest things to do correctly. It's a delicate balance between OVERTHINKING and thinking things THROUGH. If we try to think things through and consider potential outcomes, then we can easily slip into overthinking which can lead to imaginary scenarios that may not manifest. … Continue reading Overthinking Crossdressing – Part 1

Bottled Up

It's been an exhausting couple of weeks. I have had two work trips in ten days and airports and hotels and Ubers are draining. Work itself hasn't been all rainbows and glitter and sparkly stilettos, either as my team has had a complete turnover since April. Not made with AI Change isn't easy, and it's … Continue reading Bottled Up

Unmasking

After I was diagnosed (I don't like that terminology when it comes to this as it sounds fatal) as autistic a few years ago, I learned a lot about my behaviors and actions that I do consciously and subconsciously. One thing I always struggled with was eye contact. I have a difficult time keeping eye … Continue reading Unmasking

Saturday Afternoon’s Alright for Thrifting

This past Saturday was the monthly MN T-Girls event and it was wild. I mean, not literally wild. I just felt obligated to use an obviously cliched idiom considering where we went. And where did we go? Glad you asked. We went to Wild Things Antiques and spent the afternoon looking at vintage clothes and … Continue reading Saturday Afternoon’s Alright for Thrifting