Hi! I have been compiling a list of things that, well, the title of this post says it all. Relationships and ___________________ are the topics I am asked the most about. The fill in the blank part of the previous sentence is however you identify, whether it's as a crossdresser or non binary or transgender. … Continue reading Things You Should (Probably) Never Say to Your Partner
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I am Gonna Make it Through this Year if it Kills Me
"This Year" by the Mountain Goats is usually the first song I listen to on the first day of the year. It's a weirdly inspirational lyric to tell yourself. I mean, every year has it's horrible moments but you survived it. You can also look ahead knowing that the next twelve months will have challenging … Continue reading I am Gonna Make it Through this Year if it Kills Me
Let a Bitch Live
Years ago, I visited a friend after work. He asked how I was doing, but before I could answer, he qualified his question by asking me to respond without saying that I was tired. "You're always tired. That's how you always answer that question." Annnnd he was right. But I was also right. I was/am … Continue reading Let a Bitch Live
Hooray for Crossdressing!
Crossdressing is the most significant thing I have ever done. This post is going to rely heavily on how I define crossdressing: Crossdressing is simply wearing clothes that are typically associated with another gender. A boy wearing panties, a woman wearing a tie. That’s crossdressing. It is, admittingly, a very broad definition, but if the … Continue reading Hooray for Crossdressing!
And the Bells are Ringing Out For Christmas Day
As I get older I realize (and reluctantly accept) that the holidays become a little more overwhelming each year. I don't need to tell you that there's typically a LOT happening during festive days and between shopping and cleaning and family it's easy to feel a little insane lol. I've been having a particularly difficult … Continue reading And the Bells are Ringing Out For Christmas Day
Pillow Talk!
Hi! I have a new article for Pillow Talk, a new series I am doing with Xdress! I get more questions about relationships and crossdressing/gender identity/gender presentation than anything else. Although a fair amount come from partners, most come from someone like me and presumably someone like yourself. These questions are tricky because I am being asked to weigh in … Continue reading Pillow Talk!
Candela
[ kan-dee-luh ] nounOptics.a basic unit of luminous intensity in the International System of Units (SI), formally defined as the luminous intensity of a source that emits monochromatic radiation of frequency 540 × 10 12 hertz and that has a radiant intensity of 1/683 watt/steradian: adopted in 1979 as the international standard of luminous intensity. : Cd … Continue reading Candela
Saturday had EVERYTHING
This past Saturday was a busy day for me. We filmed an amazing segment for an upcoming episode of Wishlist, I slipped twice on the slippery sidewalk which caused the destruction of my favorite platform stilettos, ate a really yummy scone, and I had a photoshoot. I've been contributing articles for a new feature called … Continue reading Saturday had EVERYTHING
Pillow Talk!
Hi! I have a new article for Pillow Talk, a new series I am doing with Xdress! Diving into the world of femme clothes is like being dropped into a labyrinth with no map and the walls constantly rearranging themselves. Just when you think you are going the right way, BAM! You're wrong. Sizing is not unlike that. Just when … Continue reading Pillow Talk!
Visiting Venus
Hi! I had a busy Saturday and the highlight of the day (and the year) was sitting down with the iconic Venus de Mars! Venus is a musician who has been recording and performing since the 1980's, both as a solo artist as well as with her groups, specifically All The Pretty Horses. It's hard … Continue reading Visiting Venus
Hannah McKnight 