Hi! Wednesday's post about Victoria's Secret prompted a lot of emails about businesses that support our community. Which is good because that was the point I was trying to make. Although I think it's wonderful when a business signals to the world that transwomen are women, I feel that there is still a LOT more … Continue reading Crossdresser Friendly
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Stumbling Towards Inclusivity
Creation and progress are messy and rarely without resistance or done so with a linear trajectory. If I am in an optimistic mood, I feel that we as humans will get to a place where gender identity and sexual identity and race are no longer, either consciously or otherwise, considered when it comes to how … Continue reading Stumbling Towards Inclusivity
Wishlist Weekend
Hi! Wishlist episode four was filmed this weekend. Four! I am still surprised and delighted that we've done this many so far. I mean, four is a small number but still, it's more episodes than I thought we would have shot by now. Our fabulous Wisher for this episode is the charming and super cute … Continue reading Wishlist Weekend
A Whirlwind of Wishes
Whenever I start anything creative, I have no idea how it will go. I'm not clairvoyant and I go off of vibes which is, admittingly, not a good basis for doing anything that requires planning and coordination. Whether it's a painting or Wishlist, an idea will come to me and I'll let it bounce around … Continue reading A Whirlwind of Wishes
Aftermath
Hi! I have a new article for The Breast Form Store. This is more or less the last part of a series about coming out and focuses on what may happen after we have The Talk with someone. Coming out will likely be one of the most consequential decisions we will ever make. Whether it's … Continue reading Aftermath
Pillow Talk!
I am super excited to partner with Xdress on a new feature called Pillow Talk! My love and enthusiasm for Xdress goes back almost twenty-five years when I first discovered them. A designer that made lingerie for people like myself? For people who had bodies like mine? It was one of the most affirming moments … Continue reading Pillow Talk!
Drawn In
I like watching smart and creative and talented people work. It's fascinating to see someone pick up a guitar or paint brush and play around with it but in time, you start to experience the genesis of something. The musician or artist finds their footing and you see or hear the beginning of something beautiful. … Continue reading Drawn In
Kinks and Consent
I feel I am, at times, an unwilling and/or unaware participant in someone's kink. Alllllll of this is going to sound a little bitchy or a little egocentric but none of this is flattering. I have no qualms about the pictures I post. None of what I do is an effort to get people to … Continue reading Kinks and Consent
A Visit to underDARE
I am often amazed at how many resources are available for non-binary people these days. When I was younger I wanted to be able to go into a store and look for clothes that would fit me, that were designed for me, and assisted by a staff that supported me. Even at my most optimistic, … Continue reading A Visit to underDARE
Ghosts and Goblins and Gangsters and Girls
Hi! This past weekend was the monthly MN T-Girls event and we kicked off the spooooooky month of October with a spoooooky visit to one of the most haunted places in Minnesota. The Twin Cities has a fascinating history of the days of prohibition when Saint Paul was home to a lot of notorious gangsters. … Continue reading Ghosts and Goblins and Gangsters and Girls