Hi! I have a new article for The Breast Form Store. This is more or less the last part of a series about coming out and focuses on what may happen after we have The Talk with someone. Coming out will likely be one of the most consequential decisions we will ever make. Whether it's … Continue reading Aftermath
Pillow Talk!
I am super excited to partner with Xdress on a new feature called Pillow Talk! My love and enthusiasm for Xdress goes back almost twenty-five years when I first discovered them. A designer that made lingerie for people like myself? For people who had bodies like mine? It was one of the most affirming moments … Continue reading Pillow Talk!
Drawn In
I like watching smart and creative and talented people work. It's fascinating to see someone pick up a guitar or paint brush and play around with it but in time, you start to experience the genesis of something. The musician or artist finds their footing and you see or hear the beginning of something beautiful. … Continue reading Drawn In
Kinks and Consent
I feel I am, at times, an unwilling and/or unaware participant in someone's kink. Alllllll of this is going to sound a little bitchy or a little egocentric but none of this is flattering. I have no qualms about the pictures I post. None of what I do is an effort to get people to … Continue reading Kinks and Consent
A Visit to underDARE
I am often amazed at how many resources are available for non-binary people these days. When I was younger I wanted to be able to go into a store and look for clothes that would fit me, that were designed for me, and assisted by a staff that supported me. Even at my most optimistic, … Continue reading A Visit to underDARE
Ghosts and Goblins and Gangsters and Girls
Hi! This past weekend was the monthly MN T-Girls event and we kicked off the spooooooky month of October with a spoooooky visit to one of the most haunted places in Minnesota. The Twin Cities has a fascinating history of the days of prohibition when Saint Paul was home to a lot of notorious gangsters. … Continue reading Ghosts and Goblins and Gangsters and Girls
Wishlist Episode One!
Here it is! The first episode of Wishlist! This episode is meant to show you what a photo shoot is typically like. If you have getting a professional photo shoot on your own wishlist, I cannot recommend Grinkie Photography enough. Thank you to Christi for your time and talent and letting us film at your … Continue reading Wishlist Episode One!
Talking about Nothing
Hi! I think it's important to have a consistent pattern when it comes to blogging. At the very least I post on Monday, Wednesdays, and Fridays but if I have a LOT to say then it bumps up a little bit. I know that people who are active on social media are sometimes seen as … Continue reading Talking about Nothing
Outside Looking In
Not long ago, a friend created a magazine cover with the magic of Photoshop of me. Loved it. The other day I was sent a new image, this time of a movie poster. I loooooooooooove this. It's so well done. You can see more of Annabelle's work on her NSFW website. It inspired a new … Continue reading Outside Looking In
The Girl in the Picture
I grew up in a home that was constantly getting catalogs from Victoria's Secret or fashion magazines. I lived vicariously through them and my heart ached at how beautiful the women were and how I wanted to wear what they were modeling. They were my inspiration. My role models. The women I aspired to look … Continue reading The Girl in the Picture