After decades of working in the professional world, there's little I dread more than the annual performance review. You meet with your boss and discuss your accomplishments from the year as well as your, well, they call them "opportunities" but essentially it's when you messed up (or you met the expectations but your company always … Continue reading My 2023 Performance Review
I know there are people who say “if you want to wear them, then do it! Social norms be damned!” But unfortunately the consequences of these actions are complicated. I love reading comments on posts for a couple of reasons. I write because it helps me sort out my thoughts and perspectives. Sometimes I am consumed … Continue reading Carpe Diem! But Not Really
I have a habit of rereading posts after they go live. I get so absorbed in writing that sometimes I miss something, whether it's a grammatical or punctuation error (if you spot one, please let me know) or sometimes I realize that something wasn't as clear as I'd like it to be. It's when I reread a … Continue reading An Arbitrary Placement of Gender Norms
Lately I've been listening to a lot of "sad bitch music" as some of my friends call it. One artist I really like when I feel like getting in touch with my inner sad bitch is Dar Williams. I discovered her a while ago with the song "When I Was a Boy". https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=57BwHKcrO5o As you … Continue reading When I Was a Boy
This time of the year is always a little weird for me. I mean, I think it's weird for all of us and for different reasons. I think the best way I can describe the last three weeks of a year is that things are winding down. Of course, things are also ramping up in … Continue reading My Restless Heart
Have you ever wanted to be a blonde? I love my blonde wigs. They make me feel like some other person. I think I have thought about every hair color known to humanity, lol. Buuuut I try to keep my hair color matching my natural hair color as much as I can. I mean, you … Continue reading Ask Hannah!
I've been crossdressing most of my adult life. I'm married and my wife thinks there is something wrong with me. I have also been having thoughts being with a man. The short answer is that there's nothing fundamentally wrong with crossdressing itself. Of course, not everyone will agree with that. In fact, there's hardly anything … Continue reading Ask Hannah!
The latest episode of the Help Me, Hannah! series I am doing with En Femme is live! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JzulfNhSq4o I kinda wish youtube had a better frame of me to go along with this pause screen but whatever, lol. This was a super fun video to shoot and was done with the expert help of the bra fitters at Allure … Continue reading Help Me, Hannah!, Episode Seven
This weekend was the monthly MN T-Girls event and like every December for the last few years it was our annual holiday party! I love this party. It's a wonderful excuse to get dressed up and it's a relatively low key event for us to just chat and take a brief rest for the hectic … Continue reading Jingle Belles!
"The only one way to avoid criticism: do nothing, say nothing, and be nothing.” – Aristotle I mean... damn. He was right, wasn't he? I can't speak for everyone but the thought of doing nothing, saying nothing, and being nothing sounds terrifying and depressing at the same time. Almost everything I do when it comes to … Continue reading And Then What?
Hannah McKnight 