I don't believe that passing is something we should consider a realistic goal. I mean, my core belief is that there is no such thing and every girl, cis or trans, is beautiful and looks different and unique from everyone else. There are no standards that we must meet in order to be a girl. Passing … Continue reading Not So Picture Perfect
Month: September 2020
Ask Hannah!
I recently came across your site and am glad I did! I’m wondering where you have gone locally for makeovers, or do you do all of your own makeup/dressing? I’ve tried to separate places in Las Vegas with mixed results. One was really expensive, and didn’t deliver all that they claimed, but the showgirl outfit … Continue reading Ask Hannah!
Identity and Responsibility
I was out for a run the other day and usually a run allows me to lose myself in my thoughts and to let my mind wander. Being outside, getting exercise, is a great way to gain some perspective. It helps me work out problems and occasionally have a brilliant, random idea. On this particular … Continue reading Identity and Responsibility
In the Wee Small Hours of the Morning
Our heart's desires come out after midnight. When my wife and I were learning more about my gender identity, we would have these amazing, vulnerable conversations late at night (and often early into the morning) about how I felt, how she felt, and, well, about clothes and makeup. These talks were often accompanied by a bottle … Continue reading In the Wee Small Hours of the Morning
Acceptance and Embracing
We know that "society" will never "accept" us. We can't wait for "them" to let us know that crossdressing or wanting to wear a dress or lipstick or whatever we have tucked away in our dresser drawers or hidden in our closets is okay. Acceptance of who we are comes from ourselves. Some of us … Continue reading Acceptance and Embracing
Ask Hannah!
I’ve always been interested in cross-dress but never tried it I’m afraid, not sure why and I don’t think it was out of fear, but in recent years my anxiety issues have really been debilitating at times and it’s effecting my quality of life. Im sure there’s still some stigma to cross-dressing and I want … Continue reading Ask Hannah!
Dress Me Up! Dress Me Down!
I will never, ever, understand some of the kinks and fetishes people have. And that's okay. I don't need to, and I don't want to. Wear that latex, pay someone to spank you, be a furry. You do you. I am not here to judge why some people are so turned on by gloves, dressing … Continue reading Dress Me Up! Dress Me Down!
Peace in the Garden
"Are you excited for tomorrow?" my wife asked. I shrugged. "Liar", she teased. She was referring to a photo shoot I had the next day. It wasn't a big one, it was for a few dress reviews but they always take a lot of work, and I told her that. I knew I would have … Continue reading Peace in the Garden
Back in Yellow
Once I stepped out of the house for the first time and watched the sunrise on a summer morning I felt that I had conquered something impossible. Hannah was real, I was real, we were living in the real world. I felt invincible, I felt powerful, I felt fearless. I began to think of all … Continue reading Back in Yellow
If You Want To Be a Girl, You Can Be a Girl
"I'm a what?" I remember the first time I heard the word 'crossdresser'. I was in grade school, probably 6th grade, when a friend mentioned an episode of a talk show that featured men who liked to wear girl clothes. I was stunned. At times I felt like I was the only boy in the … Continue reading If You Want To Be a Girl, You Can Be a Girl