I want to start crossdressing but I’m a little scared of getting caught. I want to do it discreetly but my major problem is that I’m living with my parents and I don’t want them to find out. I also don’t have a car so it’s not possible to be able to shop on my own. Any suggestions?
The only guaranteed way to avoid getting caught crossdressing is to not have anything in your possession.
You may have the perfect hiding spot for your panties but there’s no guarantee that someone won’t find them.
If you are not able to shop on your own, you can always order clothes online. Of course, this brings up the other concern of someone finding your clothes.
What this comes down to is that if you want to eliminate the risk of being caught, then you probably need to move out.
I don’t mean to sound harsh or insensitive, but I can’t think of a way for you to have something in your home, whether it is a pair of panties or something else, that no one will discover.
Love, Hannah
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Hannah McKnight 
This a problem many of us have had in our crossdressing lifetimes
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Hiding stuff at home can be done but it requires a lot of genius. I knew one girl who hid her clothes in the back of a stage speaker that needed unscrewing to get into and her wife wasn’t interested in live music so left the “horrid thing” alone!
An alternative is to find a trans friend online via a forum or group nearby who will keep stuff in their home for you and even wash items for you. A lot of trans girls are willing to help others out in this way.
Good luck and may your life be beautifully feminine.
Sue x
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Actually, it depends on the abode. I can attest to hiding stuff for many years – you just have to have the right situation and space – believe me – it can be done!
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We have all went through that Patience is important and enjoying the whole process of dressing. It will happen for you if you want it to and it can be done discreetly but you will have to be patient and be prepared with a good easy to get to hiding spot. Wishing you the best..
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I see this as a question of risk, and how much you’re willing to accept. If that amount is zero, then Hannah is correct. But if you’re open to some risk, then you have to think about a few things.
First, how respectful are your parents of your privacy and your autonomy? Are they the kind of people who would go through your things without your permission? If yes, then that’s a lot of risk. If that would be unusual, or unlikely, then that risk is low.
How good are you at keeping secrets, or playing it cool? Are you able to keep a poker face and not let on that you have something hidden away? If you’re a terrible liar or not accustomed to having secrets, then be honest with yourself about that and don’t put yourself at risk.
The people who love us and with whom we live typically know us better than we realize, and they pick up on things. If your parents sense that you’re keeping secrets, one of the most likely conclusions for them to draw would be that you’re hiding drugs. If your parents suspected that, would they do something out of character and search your room? Would they react worse to finding weed in your sock drawer, or panties?
There are a hundred potential questions or scenarios like those that you should probably think about when making this kind of risk decision. And only you can answer them.
Just as a final thought, since you live with your parents and don’t have a car, I’m going to assume that you’re young. Maybe still in high school. If that’s the case, and you don’t feel safe coming out now and taking these risks, it’s okay. You can and should be realistic about what it might mean to come out in an unsafe environment. And even moreso to be forced out against your will in such an environment. You have time. You have a lot of life ahead of you. You don’t need to be in a hurry, no matter how badly it may be burning inside you. Sometimes the best way to love and accept yourself is to protect yourself.
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