Hi! I have a new article for Pillow Talk, a series I am doing with Xdress!
We are conditioned to think and feel certain things. “This is wrong” and “this is how it’s supposed to be done” and “I am supposed to want this” and “I shouldn’t do this”.
Of course, some things are legally, morally, and/or ethically wrong. Like, you shouldn’t vandalize a Cybertruck. Yes, I know they’re incredibly stupid looking and yes, the owner of Tesla is, well, we all know what he is, but it’s legally wrong to vandalize one.
But crossdressing? There is nothing inherently wrong with wearing what you wish. You are not doing anything wrong with wearing panties under your boy clothes.
But those who are identified as male at birth are conditioned to feel shame when they do ANYTHING that is not SUPER MASCULINE. No one knows WHY a boy shouldn’t wear pink besides the flimsy reason that “boys don’t wear pink”, but beyond that? No one knows.
If you feel shame about what you wear, it’s likely just your heart telling you that you need more support for this aspect of yourself.
The world is NEVER going to tell you that it’s okay to wear “girl clothes” so stop waiting for that. If you need someone to tell you that there’s nothing wrong with wearing what you wish, I’ll tell you.
Ready?
It’s okay to wear what you want.
There.
Now go put on your panties.
Love, Hannah
Hannah McKnight 
HI Hannah,
You indicate that vandalizing a Tesla truck is wrong because it is illegal to vandalize.
Does that mean if they make it illegal to crossdress that we shouldn’t do it because it is wrong and illegal?
For the record I dont believe we should vandalize Tesla trucks either. More because it harms someone.
Jodi
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That… that is a very interesting and valid question.
I’m going to think about that.
Love, Hannah
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I would argue that vandalism causes physical and financial harm. Moreover, in the case of vandalizing a Cybertruck, it causes the burden of that harm to be carried by an innocent party (relatively, of course, because their money is still going into the pocket of a disgusting Nazi terrorist). Elon Musk doesn’t care if someone vandalizes any car anywhere, and may even profit from the cost of repairs.
But continuing to dress if it were made illegal causes no harm to anyone or anything. Whereas not dressing could cause emotional harm, which can lead to physical harm.
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You are right. Panties should be worn and not kept hidden in a closet. Know what I’m doing when I get home.
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Being a closeted cross dresser sometimes panties have to be on under my boy clothes but it does not make me love them or cross dressing in general any less. I’m with Hannah. Go put your panties on, you won’t regret it. -Jaynie
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