I have a new article for The Breast Form Store!
Thinking is one of the hardest things to do correctly.
It’s a delicate balance between OVERTHINKING and thinking things THROUGH.
If we try to think things through and consider potential outcomes, then we can easily slip into overthinking which can lead to imaginary scenarios that may not manifest. These fictional scenarios may trigger fear and apprehension which can destroy us as well as prevent us from taking ANY action.
Buuut if we DON’T think things through we may act on impulse and our actions lead to a less than ideal outcome that could have been avoided if we had just taken a moment to reconsider.
Why we like wearing what we wear tends to lead to overthinking, I feel. This overthinking can lead to “reasons” that terrify us.
For example:
“I like to wear panties because I might be into men”
“I like to go out en femme because I should have been born a girl”
Of course, there’s nothing wrong at all about being attracted to men or feeling that transitioning is the right decision, but the fear comes from potential realizations that your sexuality and gender identity is different from what you initially thought.
If so, then perhaps your life will change.
It’s the change we may be afraid of.
In this two-part article I discuss how normal and easy it is to overthink this aspect of ourselves and why who we are might not mean what we think it might.
Love, Hannah
Hannah McKnight 
Women’s clothing is so beautiful, comfortable, and inspiring that, honestly, it should be worn by everyone—men and women alike. I’ve never understood why fashion needed to create boundaries between what is “masculine” and “feminine.” Lightweight fabrics, soft colors, delicate details… all of this conveys freedom, creativity, and beauty.
When I wear something feminine, it’s not just about appearance—it’s about feeling good, expressing who I am more authentically. The curious thing is that, historically, many elements that are considered “feminine” today were once worn by men. So, perhaps the problem isn’t the clothing itself, but the ideas that still insist on limiting people.
After all, if something is beautiful, comfortable, and good for the soul… why not wear it?
Translated from Portuguese by Google.
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I can totally understand overthinking this side of things. Especially as someone who grew up in the 80s when “that’s gay” was one of the worst insults and most horrific things you could say. It was easy to overthink this. One of the biggest ones I always had was “Why can’t I be normal?”
The trick there… what is normal? And why can’t me crossdressing be normal?
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