Hi! I have a new article for The Breast Form Store! It's clear that I've been thinking a lot about my desire (and likely your desire as well) to just be left alone. I am tired of the demonizing and the snarky Twitter comments from cruel people. It's disturbing how many cruel comments from people with "Christian" in … Continue reading Greetings Earthlings, We Come in Peace
Where She Stalks…
I have been blogging (do they still call it that?) for a long time. I've had this website for almost ten years and my previous website was around four years, I think. It's not easy to stick with any routine and when someone has been doing anything consistently for a while it looks a little … Continue reading Where She Stalks…
K.I.S.S.
Anyway, Monday's post prompted a few emails about how pointless it is figuring out the WHY of who we are. And I agree. I mean, it's why I wrote these two pieces. Some emailers were kinnnnnda angry that they wasted their time reading the post because, again, there's really no real, satisfying reason we are … Continue reading K.I.S.S.
Dick and Jane and Gender Roles
"Men go crazy in congregations They only get better one by one" -Sting *please note that the term 'congregations' isn't exclusive to church goers and I don't think that's the intention of the lyric buuuuut I will get to that eventually I think the phrase I hear the most from people like myself (as well as partners … Continue reading Dick and Jane and Gender Roles
Photobooth Friday
Hi! I am traveling for the Thanksgiving weekend and I was working on a post so I could schedule for it to go live while I was gone but the post is (surprise) growing and getting longer than I expected and I am on a roll with it so it's not ready, lol. I hope … Continue reading Photobooth Friday
Balance and Battles
The key to life (and walking in five inch stilettos) is maintaining balance. I am only adding this photo to break up all the text in this post This is easier said than done and really only comes from trying and failing and learning from the experience. I turned fifty last week and one thing … Continue reading Balance and Battles
A Crossdresser’s Step by Step Guide to Destroying a Relationship – part one
Hi! I have a new article for The Breast Form Store! This title is a little blunt but I feel that once we have come out to our partners, we have the likelihood of spiraling into decisions that disregard what our significant others are feeling and experiencing. WE know that there is SOMETHING about us. We have spent … Continue reading A Crossdresser’s Step by Step Guide to Destroying a Relationship – part one
The Road Ahead
I received a comment recently that pretty much suggested only non-passing transgender girls are in danger of harassment, discrimination, and violence. Of course, this isn't true. I don't believe in passing. Who is to say what physical characteristics are feminine or not? Every girl, whether cis or trans, looks different. While I will concede that not … Continue reading The Road Ahead
Rock ‘Em? Sock ‘Em? No, Block ‘Em
Arguing on the internet, or even just trying to engage with someone who has a different persepctive or a different opinion on something, is more than likely a waste of time. I spent more time on this stupid image than I will ever admit. It's very difficult to change someone's mind and it's really not … Continue reading Rock ‘Em? Sock ‘Em? No, Block ‘Em
It’s Beginning to Look a Lot Like Grinchmas
Starting the holiday season with seeing a production of 'How the Grinch Stole Christmas' by the Children's Theatre Company is my new favorite tradition. For the third year in a row (that counts as a tradition, right?), I was invited to see a production of this wonderful and charming show. Although the musical has made a few small changes … Continue reading It’s Beginning to Look a Lot Like Grinchmas