I could just pretend that you love meThe night would lose all sense of fearBut why do I need you to love meWhen you can't hold what I hold dear Oh God could it be the weatherOh God why am I hereIf love isn't foreverAnd its not the weatherHand me my leather -Tori Amos Love, … Continue reading It’s Not the Weather…
To be a Girl
I don't know what it's like to be a girl. I mean, that sounds pretty strange considering, you know, who I am. But let me clarify. What I mean is that although I may strut through the mall in heels I am potentially having an experience that is different than the one that my wife … Continue reading To be a Girl
Overdressed and Overthinking
Okay girls, three outfits left to show you from my most recent photo shoot. Of the the several that remain, this little number is the... hm, most modest of them but when you see the last two, that's not saying much. Whenever I have a shoot I choose a dress to wear to the studio. … Continue reading Overdressed and Overthinking
The Opposite of the Pink Fog
Love and hate are both passionately motivated emotions, however they are not the exact opposite of one another. I was told that the counterpoint of love is indifference, apathy. And do you know? That's much worse than hate. If you're apathetic or indifferent towards something or someone it really means that you don't give them … Continue reading The Opposite of the Pink Fog
Let’s Talk About the Internet
I've written before how the very first word I ever searched online was "crossdresser". And like Pandora opening that box, this unleashed a combination of horror and hope. Although technology has evolved at an alarming pace since 1994, people themselves haven't changed much. My first real introduction to the seemingly predominate nature of crossdressing suggested … Continue reading Let’s Talk About the Internet
Polka Dots and Shallow Thoughts
My goodness I am running behind on posting pictures from my most recent photo shoot. I am going to arbitrarily choose an outfit to post today. Should I select the leather dress? Lingerie? Something that is more modest? Oh, let's go with polka dots. When Shannonlee sends over photos, I sort them by outfit into … Continue reading Polka Dots and Shallow Thoughts
The Short Answer is Vanity
The other day (disclaimer, my concept of time is garbage and when I say "the other day" I might be referring to yesterday or four years ago) someone innocuously asked why I post pictures of my photo shoots. I didn't take the question as anything other than innocent curiosity. I said the short answer was … Continue reading The Short Answer is Vanity
Ask Hannah!
I'm a child counsellor and I'm working with a 15 year boy who is a 'cross dresser'. He is desperate to find support, or support groups but when he goes online he ends up down rabbit holes and can often feel persecuted. I've tried to research this for him but end up on transgender pages. … Continue reading Ask Hannah!
Love is a Red Dress
Do you remember during your teenage years when music and lyrics meant more to you than ever before? When I was younger my mom was always listening to music, whether in the car while running errands or at home while she was doing household stuff. But at one point a lyric jumps out at you … Continue reading Love is a Red Dress
Ask Hannah!
I don’t know if you are aware of this or not, but the Breast Form Store is sending out emails for the Hera breast forms with you in a red dress on a sofa. At least I’m pretty sure it is you… Yes! It is totally me. I was lucky to review these forms and … Continue reading Ask Hannah!