Hi! I have a new article for The Breast Form Store! This title is a little blunt but I feel that once we have come out to our partners, we have the likelihood of spiraling into decisions that disregard what our significant others are feeling and experiencing. WE know that there is SOMETHING about us. We have spent … Continue reading A Crossdresser’s Step by Step Guide to Destroying a Relationship – part one
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Love and Truth and Crossdressing
Hi! I have a new article for The Breast Form Store! I write a LOT about relationships and, well, whoever we are, because it's the topic I am asked the most about. I am often asked about how my wife and I made all of THIS work and how I found someone who was accepting of my crossdressing … Continue reading Love and Truth and Crossdressing
Overthinking Crossdressing – Part 2
Hi! I have a new article for The Breast Form Store! This is the second part of an article in which I attempt to answer a question that can't be answered and doesn't need to be answered. You can read part one here. The point of these articles is acknowledging that there doesn't NEED to be a reason … Continue reading Overthinking Crossdressing – Part 2
Pillow Talk!
Hi! I have a new article for Pillow Talk, a series I am doing with Xdress! It's so easy to overthink sexuality, especially when there are, well, options when it comes to how one can identify. Straight, gay, bi, heteroflexible, pansexual... Like gender identity, these labels (god I hate that term when it comes to people) can be either affirming or limiting. … Continue reading Pillow Talk!
Overthinking Crossdressing – Part 1
I have a new article for The Breast Form Store! Thinking is one of the hardest things to do correctly. It's a delicate balance between OVERTHINKING and thinking things THROUGH. If we try to think things through and consider potential outcomes, then we can easily slip into overthinking which can lead to imaginary scenarios that may not manifest. … Continue reading Overthinking Crossdressing – Part 1
Ghosting
*Not created with AI Now that it's officially spooky season, let's talk about ghosting. I get a lot of emails from those like us and partners of people like us, and some emails you can really tell they are really struggling. Struggling with this aspect of themselves or struggling with this aspect of their significant … Continue reading Ghosting
Pillow Talk!
Hi! I have a new article for Pillow Talk, a series I am doing with Xdress! I think that people tend to engage in a new hobby/interest in two different ways. And yes, that includes the grossly over simplistic "men wearing girl clothes". One way is slowly and methodically testing the waters. Feeling the temperature of the pool with your toe and … Continue reading Pillow Talk!
Crossdressing is a Spectrum
I have a new article for The Breast Form Store! I get emails once in a while from, well, emailers (who else would they be from??) who seem to be terrified of non-binary terminology. "I wear panties but I am afraid I might be a crossdresser" is a pretty common one. Well, yes, in my opinion, someone assigned … Continue reading Crossdressing is a Spectrum
Why ‘Clothes for Crossdressers’ are Important
I have a new article for The Breast Form Store! A few years ago, I made an acquaintance who would go onto transitioning, legally, medically, and all that. She was lovely. After she was legally the gender she identified as, she berated anyone who identified as transgender who hadn't, or wasn't planning on, transitioning. I was taken aback … Continue reading Why ‘Clothes for Crossdressers’ are Important
Pillow Talk!
Hi! I have a new article for Pillow Talk, a series I am doing with Xdress! When we come out (and yes, we are coming out when we tell someone about wearing/wanting to wear clothes that are typically not associated with the gender we were assigned at birth), it's rarely a one time conversation. Humans change over the years and our preferences … Continue reading Pillow Talk!