I have a new article for The Breast Form Store! Thinking is one of the hardest things to do correctly. It's a delicate balance between OVERTHINKING and thinking things THROUGH. If we try to think things through and consider potential outcomes, then we can easily slip into overthinking which can lead to imaginary scenarios that may not manifest. … Continue reading Overthinking Crossdressing – Part 1
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Ghosting
*Not created with AI Now that it's officially spooky season, let's talk about ghosting. I get a lot of emails from those like us and partners of people like us, and some emails you can really tell they are really struggling. Struggling with this aspect of themselves or struggling with this aspect of their significant … Continue reading Ghosting
Pillow Talk!
Hi! I have a new article for Pillow Talk, a series I am doing with Xdress! I think that people tend to engage in a new hobby/interest in two different ways. And yes, that includes the grossly over simplistic "men wearing girl clothes". One way is slowly and methodically testing the waters. Feeling the temperature of the pool with your toe and … Continue reading Pillow Talk!
Crossdressing is a Spectrum
I have a new article for The Breast Form Store! I get emails once in a while from, well, emailers (who else would they be from??) who seem to be terrified of non-binary terminology. "I wear panties but I am afraid I might be a crossdresser" is a pretty common one. Well, yes, in my opinion, someone assigned … Continue reading Crossdressing is a Spectrum
Why ‘Clothes for Crossdressers’ are Important
I have a new article for The Breast Form Store! A few years ago, I made an acquaintance who would go onto transitioning, legally, medically, and all that. She was lovely. After she was legally the gender she identified as, she berated anyone who identified as transgender who hadn't, or wasn't planning on, transitioning. I was taken aback … Continue reading Why ‘Clothes for Crossdressers’ are Important
Pillow Talk!
Hi! I have a new article for Pillow Talk, a series I am doing with Xdress! When we come out (and yes, we are coming out when we tell someone about wearing/wanting to wear clothes that are typically not associated with the gender we were assigned at birth), it's rarely a one time conversation. Humans change over the years and our preferences … Continue reading Pillow Talk!
Pillow Talk!
Hi! I have a new article for Pillow Talk, a series I am doing with Xdress! lol that is quite the image, isn't it? This post/article/blog/question/thing is a subject I am asked fairly often. Many of us are concerned about someone noticing that we are underdressing or wearing femme clothes. And I get it, I promise. I don't want someone seeing my … Continue reading Pillow Talk!
Thank You, I’m Sorry
I have a new article for The Breast Form Store! Gratitude can sometimes feel uncomfortable. It can be disarming when you think about how fortunate you really are. And yes, I know that there are aspects to our lives that we wish were better or easier. I do this all the time. But right now I am on … Continue reading Thank You, I’m Sorry
Why Crossdressing is Important
I have a new article for The Breast Form Store! Many of us started our journey by sneakily trying on clothes that were not designed for our body. Many of us had a moment where we saw a girl and had a different yearning than what we expected. Perhaps we felt jealous of her but we didn't … Continue reading Why Crossdressing is Important
Pillow Talk!
Hi! I have a new article for Pillow Talk, a series I am doing with Xdress! I've been told that my perspective on crossdressing/gender identity/gender presentation when it comes to relationships is a little black and white. At my core, I feel being honest with your partner is super important, and I feel that most of us have likely explored (and fallen … Continue reading Pillow Talk!