hello and i would like to know what is the difference between a cross dress and transgender or cis. i am a closet cross dresser for many years and love to dress up as a female and be happy looking pretty and feeling pretty about myself. Cisgender is when you feel that the gender you … Continue reading Ask Hannah!
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What a Good Boy, What a Pretty Girl
I have no idea why we are who we are. No one does. We're all the same but we're all so different. Not because we are trans, but because we are, you know, HUMAN. Anyway, I think many people are quick to over-analyze who we are or attribute trauma or familial history as to why we … Continue reading What a Good Boy, What a Pretty Girl
T-Girl Support in Wisconsin
As important as I think it is to find heels and dresses and lingerie that fit (and I think this is really important), I think that finding support and friendship is just as crucial. A random thought. I know it's shallow to put panties and stilettos as equal to support for girls like us, but … Continue reading T-Girl Support in Wisconsin
Ask Hannah!
I am making a contact sheet of resources for a friend of mine that cross dresses. Is there any resources you would highly recommend? Mental health, books to read, people to watch on YouTube or to follow on social media. He’s not looking for forums or dating sites, and that’s all I really come up … Continue reading Ask Hannah!
Silver and Bold
I used to think the only way I would be able to leave my home en femme was if I passed. Knowing I would never pass (not that there is such a thing) I thought if I blended in I would be ready to brave the world. I see blending as a... hm, survival method, … Continue reading Silver and Bold
Identity and Responsibility
I was out for a run the other day and usually a run allows me to lose myself in my thoughts and to let my mind wander. Being outside, getting exercise, is a great way to gain some perspective. It helps me work out problems and occasionally have a brilliant, random idea. On this particular … Continue reading Identity and Responsibility
In the Wee Small Hours of the Morning
Our heart's desires come out after midnight. When my wife and I were learning more about my gender identity, we would have these amazing, vulnerable conversations late at night (and often early into the morning) about how I felt, how she felt, and, well, about clothes and makeup. These talks were often accompanied by a bottle … Continue reading In the Wee Small Hours of the Morning
Acceptance and Embracing
We know that "society" will never "accept" us. We can't wait for "them" to let us know that crossdressing or wanting to wear a dress or lipstick or whatever we have tucked away in our dresser drawers or hidden in our closets is okay. Acceptance of who we are comes from ourselves. Some of us … Continue reading Acceptance and Embracing
Back in Yellow
Once I stepped out of the house for the first time and watched the sunrise on a summer morning I felt that I had conquered something impossible. Hannah was real, I was real, we were living in the real world. I felt invincible, I felt powerful, I felt fearless. I began to think of all … Continue reading Back in Yellow
New En Femme Blog!
My new article for En Femme has been posted! The latest article with blogger, trans-activist and fashionista, Hannah McKnight is now available on our Learning Center! Hannah's blog discusses more in-depth her life as a self-described T-girl.In past articles for our Learning Center, Hannah has discussed her gender identity evolution and journey towards self-acceptance, coming out to … Continue reading New En Femme Blog!
Hannah McKnight 