Hi! I have a new article for Pillow Talk, a series I am doing with Xdress! It's so easy to overthink sexuality, especially when there are, well, options when it comes to how one can identify. Straight, gay, bi, heteroflexible, pansexual... Like gender identity, these labels (god I hate that term when it comes to people) can be either affirming or limiting. … Continue reading Pillow Talk!
I believe that sex can be, and is, many, many things. It can be fun, intimate, spontaneous, planned, kinky... even all of these at once. If the participants are all willing and consenting and respected, I don't think there's really a wrong way to have sex. Regardless of what someone's sexy time is like, I … Continue reading Daydreams and Fantasies
I read once that "transgender" is often used as an adjective. A term to describe a person or an object. And I vibe with that. I am a transgender girl. I am a tall girl. I am a transgender girl. I am an autistic girl. I am a transgender girl. And so on. Sometimes when others use the t-word it … Continue reading A Tiny Little Rant for Friday
I've been crossdressing most of my adult life. I'm married and my wife thinks there is something wrong with me. I have also been having thoughts being with a man. The short answer is that there's nothing fundamentally wrong with crossdressing itself. Of course, not everyone will agree with that. In fact, there's hardly anything … Continue reading Ask Hannah!
I have a supportive girlfriend who knows about my dressing and helps me shop and improve my appearance. However as my wardrobe has increased and sometimes our intimate times involve dressing she is consumed by the belief that I am gay and would be happier being with a man than with her. Nothing could be … Continue reading Ask Hannah!
Do you ever ask for clarification when you are asked a question and even though you are pretty certain you know what they mean but you are annoyed by the query? I do sometimes. And yes, this is VERY passive aggressive of me. I've written before how shocked (and yes, looking back this was a … Continue reading Straight Crossdressers
There's a lot to be said about guilt and crossdressing. Stana has been posting about this recently and it got my little brain humming. But before I contribute even more to the subject, I want to say that I write about a LOT of different aspects of, well, all of this. Today's post is focusing … Continue reading Marriage, Crossdressing, and Fantasies
I hope I never run out of things to write about where I get to the point that I start to psychoanalyze why something or someone is a fetish to someone else. I'm not a therapist and I don't always have scientific basis for everything that I write about but I think I do a … Continue reading Hate and Hyper Sexualization
I don't necessarily agree with the idea of someone's sexual preference changing, even temporary, when their gender presentation changes. Some girls tell me that in male mode they are 100000000000% straight but when they are en femme they can't stop having sex with men. My thought is that clothes don't change one's sexual preference. Many … Continue reading The Pointlessness of Sexual Identity
So! Consent is sexy and necessary. Usually when we think of consent we think of it in terms of sex. If people are going to have sex with each other then everyone involved needs to be willing (and hopefully eager). But consent isn't necessarily limited to two or more people in a physical or intimate … Continue reading In Which I Learn I am Bad at Financial Domination
Hannah McKnight 