When we are en femme, I believe we become a different person. This person is not necessarily a NEW person, though. She is different than who, well, we normally are. When Hannah is in the world she is a different person from the person that I normally present as. She is a different person than … Continue reading Her Own World
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Our Place in the Alphabet
So many of us want to chat with others like us. We want FRIENDS. We want someone to talk to, we want someone to understand us, we want someone to hit the mall with. I get it. I mean, that need to connect with others like myself was a huge part of starting the MN … Continue reading Our Place in the Alphabet
Taking Care
As many of you know, I am a huge advocate when it comes to seeking help from professionals. Want to learn makeup? Schedule a lesson with a makeup artist. Need to know your cup and band size? Get a bra fitting. Asking for help in ANYTHING isn't easy as it usually requires us to move … Continue reading Taking Care
Walls
The process of transforming this tired and overwhelmed middle-aged body into Hannah is, well, a process. After shaving (everywhere), I more or less start with a blank canvas. It's like my appearance could go in any number of directions. I might be getting ready to spend the day en femme, I might be putting on … Continue reading Walls
Nine Years and Counting
The MN T-Girls have our final event of 2022 this weekend. I am in the beginning stages of planning events for the upcoming year and it's not always easy. Some monthly events are a given, such as the annual Halloween party in October (obviously) and Pride in June. We have an annual photo shoot and … Continue reading Nine Years and Counting
The Click
Hi! I need your help! I get a lot of emails from girls like me, from people like you, from crossdressers AND from partners, spouses, and significant others about relationships with a non-cis gender person. Most of these emails are about two people trying to understand or trying to explain this side of us to … Continue reading The Click
You Can’t Always Get What You Want
I get messages through my website and from time to time I see that the provided address to receive a reply is very likely fake. But I usually respond and in almost every instance my instinct was correct and the email is bounced back. It's possible the address had a typo in it but my … Continue reading You Can’t Always Get What You Want
The Opposite of the Pink Fog
Love and hate are both passionately motivated emotions, however they are not the exact opposite of one another. I was told that the counterpoint of love is indifference, apathy. And do you know? That's much worse than hate. If you're apathetic or indifferent towards something or someone it really means that you don't give them … Continue reading The Opposite of the Pink Fog
Ask Hannah!
I'm a child counsellor and I'm working with a 15 year boy who is a 'cross dresser'. He is desperate to find support, or support groups but when he goes online he ends up down rabbit holes and can often feel persecuted. I've tried to research this for him but end up on transgender pages. … Continue reading Ask Hannah!
God Bless the Wing Girls
According to the Urban Dictionary, a wing man is a friend that you can bring to a bar or party in order to find women more easily. This past weekend at Pride I met a few wing girls. They didn't visit the MN T-Girls booth with the intention of romance, though. But they all had … Continue reading God Bless the Wing Girls