Hello, I really love to know how I could be more femme. I am a very tall guy which I really hate.
There’s a zillion things you can do, and what makes one feel femme is different for everyone. For some nothing is more feminine than bright red nails, or a matching bra and panty set or literally anything else.
You specifically mention being very tall. How tall is too tall to be feminine? Remember, there is no standard that one has to meet to be a woman. I am also tall but once I learned to embrace my height I was that much happier. I used to want to blend in. I didn’t want to be noticed, I didn’t want to be seen. I thought being tall would make me stand out more. But I realized that I am going to stand out no matter what. I wear bright pink dresses. My makeup has more drama than a high school. There’s nothing about me that blends in, so why not wear whatever I want?
So I rock the sky-high heels and I am hard to miss. It’s funny, wearing tall heels makes me feel more feminine that I ever thought I could feel.
The best advice I ever heard about being a tall girl and heels was given by talk show host Wendy Williams. She says it better than I ever could.
The best thing we can do is embrace ourselves. Embrace all of you. Your height, your body, everything.
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