Please please forgive me if this has been dealt with in your lovely blog and I have failed to find it, but the whole business of gaffing/tucking etc. What do you do, what do you advise?
There a few options a girl like us can explore. One option is wearing pantyhose or nylons, especially a pair with a control top, to help flatten your…uh, area. Control tops help with keeping your tummy a little flatter but can also be effective for other anatomical features.
You could tuck, which is essentially pulling your genitalia back between your legs and using a particular type of tape to keep everything in place.
Probably the most common method is wearing a gaff. A gaff is a type of lingerie that helps tucks and flattens genitalia. The Breast Form Store, Glamour Boutique, and En Femme all sell various gaffs. I would also suggest looking at GI, a lingerie brand designed by a transwoman who designed products, including a gaff for our community.
I hope that helps!