What were your feelings and your thoughts the first time you used the ladies room?
The first time I used the ladies room was at a LGBTQ+ bar which is probably as safe as it gets. I was still a LITTLE nervous, though. Thankfully it was an uneventful experience. I did take a few selfies and reapplied my lipstick just because I could, lol.
Since then, I have used the ladies room countless times and they have been without incident. I do use a family restroom if there is an option to do so, but so far every visit has been fine. Indeed, if anything there’s small talk with the other ladies about shoes or the outfits we’re wearing.
I am fully aware of me being a t-girl in the ladies room, though. I never want to make others feel uncomfortable but I am conscious of the fact that a transgender person in a bathroom is a political hot topic. This… controversy seems to have died down a little over the last few years but I know at any time someone might react in a negative way and might cause trouble.
I will always recommend the app Refugee Restroom when it comes to non-binary people looking for a bathroom.
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