I would like to date a transgender girl. I am bisexual guy. Please refer me to places in the Minneapolis/Saint Paul area where I can meet them.
There is no specific place where people of a certain gender congregate. It’s not like we have a secret headquarters.
T-girls go anywhere and everywhere we please. We are, and can be anywhere.
And honestly? Even if there was, I wouldn’t want to make that information known. The last thing many women want, regardless if we are trans or cis, is to be somewhere with the increased odds that someone will be there with the intention of hitting on us.
I’m sorry if this is coming off as harsh. You are likely a kind person but the amount of emails and messages I get from chasers becomes a little tiring.
Love, Hannah
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Hannah McKnight 
In the UK there are such places but I have found that for the most part and for want of a better way of putting it a lot of straight people go as well so as not to be hit on as well but I for the most part have been welcomed into this world as my girlfriend introduced me to a lot of her friends what a mind blowing time I’m having it’s great
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If I may add to this, being interested in a trans woman doesn’t make you “bisexual.” Trans women are WOMEN… period!
I really can’t stand how people have to mention their sexuality as if it’s some kind of qualifier for dating trans people. Straight guys date trans women… straight women date trans men, and so on. A person’s transness does not define someone’s sexuality.
Sorry if that came off harsh (not towards you at all Hannah, because your response was 💯), but I just got done with a conversation with a bunch of people debating the “Wokeness” of GTA6 because one of the main characters, and they had to start quoting all that Matt Walsh garbage at me. So I’m a little fired up.
Okay, off my soapbox and into a cute pair of boots!
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Yes! His sexuality does not matter, unless he is gay.
I also see guys who are specifically looking for trans women are not seeing us as women, otherwise he would just be looking for women. Both CIS and trans are in that group. If they are looking for only trans women, then they are looking at us as an object or a fetish. They do not see us as a human and a woman.
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Hi Alicia,
I do think this is rather harsh. He never said trans women are not women. We all have our preferences. With all the hate directed at as, I find it nice for a change that someone wants to get to know us.
Jodi
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Yes Jodi ! Yes
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Hi Jodi!
Obviously depends on his motive. If I were a betting woman, I am guessing he is looking for action given that he felt it necessary to declare his sexual orientation right upfront. I could be wrong and apologize if that is the case, but odds are this is more objectifying of the Trans community. If he was able to find this site, chances are is aware of other avenues but was hoping to get a short list and red carpet. Suspect if he has attempted to infiltrate online circles that he was told to pound sand.
I do get your comment that there are men that are genuinely interested in dating a Trans Woman. Also recognize the challenge for those Trans Women that want to date a man who has good intentions and in a safe manner.
Again, I could be completely off base so appreciate your half full view 😊
Nadine
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One thing I would point out is that by mentioning that he’s bisexual, there’s at least some level of implication that his line of thinking is “I’m bi, so I can date a trans woman,” implying that he wouldn’t be able to if he was straight. That alone gives at least some legitimacy to my hypothesis that he doesn’t view trans women as women… because if he did, why would he need to point out he’s bi?
I know I’m being harsh, but there is enough in his statement to comfortably imply that he doesn’t think he’d be able to date a trans woman if he wasn’t bi (which then yields the conclusion that he wouldn’t view a trans woman as a woman), so I do think my critique is fair. I also think he’s implying at least to some degree that he wants to hook up with a trans woman, which if true only by merit of her being trans, would make him a chaser, and while I can’t speak for others, I’m kind of tired of chasers.
I’m all for people wanting to learn more about our community, but not if it’s just for hookups, and especially not if it’s about feeding a fetish. But this is just my $0.02
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Now I’m wishing there actually was a secret headquarters! That sounds fun! We could just show our super secret T-girl licenses to get in. Oh shoot, I’m not supposed to talk about those…
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The first thing I noticed was using the word “them” which tells me it really doesn’t matter on the individual, as long as they are a Trans Woman. Did I get that correctly? Like ordering up a pizza, right?? Without restating the comments that have already been provided which I wholeheartedly agree with, the internet must have oodles of local Trans Dating sites for you to navigate. But be careful what you wish for.
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Hannah harsh? Heck yea.
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