I've been getting a lot of emails recently from people asking what does their crossdressing mean.What they want to know is WHY they crossdress and what their crossdressing means about their sexuality. No one, especially someone like us, can be neatly or satisfactorily explained or described in a sentence or two. Human beings are complex, … Continue reading Crossdressing is an Open Door
I looked good on Saturday. And I think it's okay to say we look good when we do. For some reason it's more... ah, acceptable to point out our flaws and shortcomings (especially for a girl like us) but I think if we feel good, if we think we look good, then we should say … Continue reading It’s Not Okay
Last night was the monthly event for the MN T-Girls. Because of the pandemic, we haven't been out to dinner for quite a while so I felt it was time to return to the Wilde Cafe and Spirits in Minneapolis. It's been a favorite of ours for years so it was fun to go back. … Continue reading Dining out with the T-Girls!
My new blog for En Femme is live! The latest from blogger, trans-activist and fashionista, Hannah McKnight is now available in our Learning Center! Hannah's blog discusses more in-depth her life as a self-described T-girl. In her newest article, "The World Outside," Hannah provides guidance on the coming out process and being out in public for the first … Continue reading New En Femme Blog!
I rarely wear skirts. Because of this, my confidence is about zero when it comes to creating an outfit based around one. In some ways I feel that skirts and a cute top are a little... well, maybe casual isn't the right word, but I tend to wear dresses that stand out pretty much anywhere. I … Continue reading Skirting Around
I was asked to review a pair of stockings from We Love Colors recently. I love doing reviews and it's a fun reason to arrange for a photo shoot. I spent some time picking out which stockings I wanted to review and of course, I HAD to pick fishnets. 🙂 I don't wear fishnet stockings … Continue reading The Alluring Power of Fishnets
These are the words at the top of page for Zhe, a new line of lingerie for transwomen. Zhe was founded by designer Karyn Elizabeth and, according to their website, is a lingerie brand designed with the fit and function needs of the TGNC community. Our lingerie was designed to address the specific needs of … Continue reading The Future is Inclusive
It's amazing how many words are available for girls like us. But it can be overwhelming when it comes to choosing how to identify. Some crossdressers may feel that all of THIS is more about clothes, but they may not feel ready to identify as transgender... yet. What is the difference between non-binary and being … Continue reading The Complicated Legacy of Crossdressing
Do you read stories from sites like Fictionmania? I love it! I so admire that you can go out dressed like you do. Have you ever done hormones or thought of doing this? Fictionmania is a website which features fictional stories focusing on the transgender community. I don't read t-girl fiction anymore even though I really … Continue reading Ask Hannah!
This side of us is beautiful. This side of us is a refuge from the rest of the world sometimes. At least it is for me. When my boy life is getting stressful there's nothing like scheduling a makeover, wearing a pretty dress, and spending the day wandering around a mall or a museum or … Continue reading Stay Positive
