Our heart's desires come out after midnight. When my wife and I were learning more about my gender identity, we would have these amazing, vulnerable conversations late at night (and often early into the morning) about how I felt, how she felt, and, well, about clothes and makeup. These talks were often accompanied by a bottle … Continue reading In the Wee Small Hours of the Morning
Acceptance and Embracing
We know that "society" will never "accept" us. We can't wait for "them" to let us know that crossdressing or wanting to wear a dress or lipstick or whatever we have tucked away in our dresser drawers or hidden in our closets is okay. Acceptance of who we are comes from ourselves. Some of us … Continue reading Acceptance and Embracing
Ask Hannah!
I’ve always been interested in cross-dress but never tried it I’m afraid, not sure why and I don’t think it was out of fear, but in recent years my anxiety issues have really been debilitating at times and it’s effecting my quality of life. Im sure there’s still some stigma to cross-dressing and I want … Continue reading Ask Hannah!
Dress Me Up! Dress Me Down!
I will never, ever, understand some of the kinks and fetishes people have. And that's okay. I don't need to, and I don't want to. Wear that latex, pay someone to spank you, be a furry. You do you. I am not here to judge why some people are so turned on by gloves, dressing … Continue reading Dress Me Up! Dress Me Down!
Peace in the Garden
"Are you excited for tomorrow?" my wife asked. I shrugged. "Liar", she teased. She was referring to a photo shoot I had the next day. It wasn't a big one, it was for a few dress reviews but they always take a lot of work, and I told her that. I knew I would have … Continue reading Peace in the Garden
Back in Yellow
Once I stepped out of the house for the first time and watched the sunrise on a summer morning I felt that I had conquered something impossible. Hannah was real, I was real, we were living in the real world. I felt invincible, I felt powerful, I felt fearless. I began to think of all … Continue reading Back in Yellow
If You Want To Be a Girl, You Can Be a Girl
"I'm a what?" I remember the first time I heard the word 'crossdresser'. I was in grade school, probably 6th grade, when a friend mentioned an episode of a talk show that featured men who liked to wear girl clothes. I was stunned. At times I felt like I was the only boy in the … Continue reading If You Want To Be a Girl, You Can Be a Girl
New En Femme Blog!
My new article for En Femme has been posted! The latest article with blogger, trans-activist and fashionista, Hannah McKnight is now available on our Learning Center! Hannah's blog discusses more in-depth her life as a self-described T-girl.In past articles for our Learning Center, Hannah has discussed her gender identity evolution and journey towards self-acceptance, coming out to … Continue reading New En Femme Blog!
Ask Hannah!
Have you ever seriously considered transitioning ? Give some of your pros and cons ! Of course I have. We all have. To clarify, I have never considered transitioning, but I have considered if I wanted to, or if I needed do. If I felt that I wanted to, then I would consider doing it, … Continue reading Ask Hannah!
MN T-Girls and T-Grilling
This past weekend the MN T-Girls had our monthly social event. A typical summer always has a patio party but I think it's safe to say that this summer has been anything but typical. The group took a few months off earlier this year but we started to meet a few months ago and have … Continue reading MN T-Girls and T-Grilling