They say that comparison is the thief of joy and although I do like being verbose and I agree with the statement, I am not crazy about the wording of it. And I don't necessarily know why. But that's not the point. What the statement means to me is that if you compare yourself to … Continue reading The Thief of Joy
Excited and Freaking Out
Hi! I try to post every other day or at the very least, not let more than two days go without updating this site. I've been working on a post that is getting longer and longer and longer and I was hoping I would have it ready and raring to go by today but the … Continue reading Excited and Freaking Out
It’s Me, Hi
It's me, hi, I'm transgender, it's me. I make no effort to "pass" as cisgender. I am trans and proud. I am a t-girl and not bothering to hide that. Of course, this courage and declaration is primarily reserved for my femme life. I still keep my non cisgender side of me a secret to … Continue reading It’s Me, Hi
My Comment on Comments
I am always stretched pretty thin between this website, the MN T-Girls, social media, photo shoots, and future projects. And! I have allll the responsibilities of my boy life, too. Goodness it gets exhausting. There's a lot I do that is, I suppose, behind the scenes. Photo shoots, T-Girl events, and projects just don't happen. … Continue reading My Comment on Comments
V-Day!
Happy Valentine's Day! I hope your day is filled with whatever makes you happy. And yes, many holidays are just another day for many of us but I hope you can spend some time with someone special even if that special someone is yourself. Love, Hannah
Three Links
Hi! I appreciate it when someone sends a link my way that they think we would be interested in. Sometimes it's a link to another t-girl's website or a new place to buy lingerie, a story in the news I missed, or resources that help us in other ways. I'd like to pass on three … Continue reading Three Links
Bam!
Some people who live outside of Minnesota think that we all commute atop the back of polar bears and live in igloos. Yes, Minnesota is cold but we also have very humid and long and gross summers. But the idea that the state is a frozen tundra is a persistent and stubborn perception. If I … Continue reading Bam!
Sisters
Last year many of you offered your support to Jaclyn after she wrote on her blog a rather upsetting message. We feared the worst as there were no updates after the post. I was relieved to see a new post to her blog. Sadly Jacklyn still seems to be struggling. If you have a moment, … Continue reading Sisters
Let’s Talk About Men
And yes, NOT ALL MEN. When I post my silly little thoughts, regardless of what I am blathering on about, I try to qualify my statements and opinions with, well, qualifiers like "sometimes..." and "for the most part...". I try to avoid generalities and I want to make it clear that I am not writing … Continue reading Let’s Talk About Men
Crossdressing and Compromises
I read every single comment that is posted on this website. Promise. Sometimes a comment will be a little critical of a photo, an opinion, or a post. Sometimes I am very reluctant to admit the comment which contradicts my opinion has, well, a valid point. For example! Smiling in photos. I will always believe … Continue reading Crossdressing and Compromises