As someone who has presented as a cis gender man for much of my life, and as someone who still does most of the time, I am usually unaware of the privilege that this offers me. And yes, I know some men argue that they don't have any sort of privilege and to be honest … Continue reading A Mile in Stilettos
Sexy But Not Sexual
From time to time I get a little uninspired by what is in my wardrobe or on my Amazon wish list when it comes to outfits for a photo shoot. Sometimes I'll ask others for suggestions on Twitter and usually the responses are either pretty vague or, well, very specific. The ambiguity is usually along … Continue reading Sexy But Not Sexual
The Prevailing Eroticism of Who we Are
I didn't know it was a fetish. Honestly. And in retrospect this sounds incredibly naïve but realizing that for some of us wearing lingerie is kinky was pretty earth-shattering. I suppose that sounds very dramatic. To clarify, yes, wearing lingerie is often associated with sexy time and sexy time is, well, sexy but just simply … Continue reading The Prevailing Eroticism of Who we Are
Dress Up Doll
Sometimes I let myself fall down the rabbit hole of what all of THIS is about. It's not a path I go down very often anymore. I am who I am and this is what it is. But sometimes I am reminded a lot of THIS has a lot to do about the clothes, lol. … Continue reading Dress Up Doll
Human
Thiiiiiiiiiis is going to sound incredibly arrogant and vain. But here we go. I tend to think of myself as somewhat self-aware. I am aware of the impact I have on people. To be clear, I am not saying or thinking that I am an AMAZING person that creates a magical and unforgettable experience with … Continue reading Human
Her Own World
When we are en femme, I believe we become a different person. This person is not necessarily a NEW person, though. She is different than who, well, we normally are. When Hannah is in the world she is a different person from the person that I normally present as. She is a different person than … Continue reading Her Own World
A New Year and a New World
I don't know anyone who isn't looking forward to the new year. No one is saying things like "I don't want 2022 to end!". It's like that weird classmate who loved high school and never wanted it to end. The years feel like they are getting longer and it feels like so much happens in … Continue reading A New Year and a New World
Our Place in the Alphabet
So many of us want to chat with others like us. We want FRIENDS. We want someone to talk to, we want someone to understand us, we want someone to hit the mall with. I get it. I mean, that need to connect with others like myself was a huge part of starting the MN … Continue reading Our Place in the Alphabet
I’m Your Hell, I’m Your Dream
I'm a bitchI'm a loverI'm a childI'm a motherI'm a sinnerI'm a saintAnd I do not feel ashamedI'm your hellI'm your dreamI'm nothing in between -Meredith Brooks I am not used to not doing anything. I also don't like not being able to do what I want, lol. Despite my boss' penchant for... well, being … Continue reading I’m Your Hell, I’m Your Dream
My Favorite Things
My little website can get a little introspective and intense at times and sometimes I forget that is a site that celebrates femineity. So! As a bit of a break from the recent heavier stuff, let's talk about the things I love about my femme side. This is going to be pretty superficial and shallow, … Continue reading My Favorite Things