Last month my wife offered to answer some questions from t-girls and partners about her experiences, thoughts, and feelings about her relationship with a girl like us. She read every comment, email, and question and I am happy to share with you her responses. Being who we are is not easy, and it's even harder … Continue reading Ask Hannah’s Wife
There is a hashtag that a girl like us uses on social media. The tag, conveniently enough, is #girlslikeus. This tag is used to bring attention to our community for the purpose of relatable problems, whether it's trivial such as getting frustrated that Target doesn't normally carry heels in sizes larger that an 11, … Continue reading #girlslikeus
We know what it is like to be us. We know how complex, stressful, conflicting, and wonderful it is to be who we are. Sharing this side of us is not easy and I do my best to write about what our partners may be feeling, thinking, or worried about when it comes to being … Continue reading Ask Hannah’s…Wife
Now that I have your attention... Accepting yourself and identifying as transgender is one of the most significant and life-changing moments you will ever experience. This acceptance can lead to feeling anxious, feeling free, feeling burdened, feeling confused, or even just feeling relieved that we have touched on why we feel what we feel and … Continue reading SEX
I have FABULOUS eyebrows. Yes, I love how I look. Yes, I know it gets annoying. But I work hard to have the body that I have. Are there parts I wish I could change? Sure, but as I get older I find it harder to think of what those changes could be. Ten years … Continue reading Coloring Outside the Lines
It was a very hot weekend. Over those few days what I remember the most was how hot it was. It was a Friday night and after a glass or two of wine, I told my girlfriend, the girl I would marry years later, about me. I danced around the word 'crossdresser' because even then … Continue reading The Pink Fog
I have written quite a bit about relationships and our gender identity. I have always and will always say that we need to be honest and open about who we are before the relationship is serious. Some of us, for various reasons, weren't able to do that. For some of us, we were in denial. … Continue reading Marriage and the T-Girl
Now that's a fun title, isn't it? When we first start to come out to others, so begins a deluge of feelings, experiences, emotions, desires and dreams. We are no longer holding back our other selves, the years of secrets and loneliness. We are free. Well, more free than we were before. Of course, after … Continue reading Destroy Your Enemies, Not Your Allies
If you are reading this, there is a really good chance you could, and do, identify as transgender. I define that term rather broadly so whether you are on hormones, living full-time or just wearing a cute pair of panties or have pink toenails there's a really strong likelihood you fit within that definition. Based … Continue reading Be Worth It
I am at a point in my life where I rarely feel the need to tell others about who I am or how I identify. I've told a few friends and family members and I don't think anyone else needs to know. However, I am also at a point where if I were..."caught" I would … Continue reading Sharing the Secret
Hannah McKnight 