Hi girls! I am getting close to finishing my first draft of 'In-Between'. Many of you asked for a section about coming out to your spouse after you've gotten married. This wasn't an easy chapter to write and I really want to thank everyone who wrote in about their experiences with this. Marriage is not … Continue reading Love and Marriage and Crossdressing
When I met my wife, I knew I would need to tell her about... everything. I was in my early thirties when we started to date and I knew who I was, I knew this was not a phase, I knew I was not going to outgrow this side of me. I believe in full … Continue reading Testing the Waters
I have hosted parties and organized gatherings in my male life. I am not a particularly a social person, so for occasions like these I tend to details such as making sure there is enough food and cleaning up. I try to busy myself and keep moving. I try to stay out of the way. … Continue reading Getting to Know You, Getting to Know All About You
Last month my wife offered to answer some questions from t-girls and partners about her experiences, thoughts, and feelings about her relationship with a girl like us. She read every comment, email, and question and I am happy to share with you her responses. Being who we are is not easy, and it's even harder … Continue reading Ask Hannah’s Wife
There is a hashtag that a girl like us uses on social media. The tag, conveniently enough, is #girlslikeus. This tag is used to bring attention to our community for the purpose of relatable problems, whether it's trivial such as getting frustrated that Target doesn't normally carry heels in sizes larger that an 11, … Continue reading #girlslikeus
We know what it is like to be us. We know how complex, stressful, conflicting, and wonderful it is to be who we are. Sharing this side of us is not easy and I do my best to write about what our partners may be feeling, thinking, or worried about when it comes to being … Continue reading Ask Hannah’s…Wife
Now that I have your attention... Accepting yourself and identifying as transgender is one of the most significant and life-changing moments you will ever experience. This acceptance can lead to feeling anxious, feeling free, feeling burdened, feeling confused, or even just feeling relieved that we have touched on why we feel what we feel and … Continue reading SEX
I have FABULOUS eyebrows. Yes, I love how I look. Yes, I know it gets annoying. But I work hard to have the body that I have. Are there parts I wish I could change? Sure, but as I get older I find it harder to think of what those changes could be. Ten years … Continue reading Coloring Outside the Lines
It was a very hot weekend. Over those few days what I remember the most was how hot it was. It was a Friday night and after a glass or two of wine, I told my girlfriend, the girl I would marry years later, about me. I danced around the word 'crossdresser' because even then … Continue reading The Pink Fog
I have written quite a bit about relationships and our gender identity. I have always and will always say that we need to be honest and open about who we are before the relationship is serious. Some of us, for various reasons, weren't able to do that. For some of us, we were in denial. … Continue reading Marriage and the T-Girl
Hannah McKnight 