I read every single comment that is posted on this website. Promise. Sometimes a comment will be a little critical of a photo, an opinion, or a post. Sometimes I am very reluctant to admit the comment which contradicts my opinion has, well, a valid point. For example! Smiling in photos. I will always believe … Continue reading Crossdressing and Compromises
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Crossdressing and Guilt
I don't think crossdressing is a big deal. I mean, obviously presenting as a gender that is different than the gender that is stated on my birth certificate is an enormous part of my life and who I am and I am always wearing clothes that are "for girls" but I have absolutely no... negative … Continue reading Crossdressing and Guilt
The Click
Hi! I need your help! I get a lot of emails from girls like me, from people like you, from crossdressers AND from partners, spouses, and significant others about relationships with a non-cis gender person. Most of these emails are about two people trying to understand or trying to explain this side of us to … Continue reading The Click
The Pink Rule
Hi girls! Thanksgiving week is always weird. For most of us it's a short work week. Additionally most of us are also likely traveling or preparing a meal or dreading seeing certain family members. Whatever you are doing, or whatever you had to do, I hope it went by as well as it could! In … Continue reading The Pink Rule
You Can’t Always Get What You Want
I get messages through my website and from time to time I see that the provided address to receive a reply is very likely fake. But I usually respond and in almost every instance my instinct was correct and the email is bounced back. It's possible the address had a typo in it but my … Continue reading You Can’t Always Get What You Want
The Opposite of the Pink Fog
Love and hate are both passionately motivated emotions, however they are not the exact opposite of one another. I was told that the counterpoint of love is indifference, apathy. And do you know? That's much worse than hate. If you're apathetic or indifferent towards something or someone it really means that you don't give them … Continue reading The Opposite of the Pink Fog
Listen
If we are fortunate, we will live long enough to learn. If we are wise, we will choose to learn from our experiences and grow. If we are truly wise we can learn from others' experiences. There are times when I look back and wish I knew then what I know now. Often these moments … Continue reading Listen
Ask Hannah!
Hi Hannah. I am at a point well beyond hating myself for who I am. I have tried to give up crossdressing more times than I care to count and every time I come back to it. I told my wife a while back and it created such friction that I had to tell her … Continue reading Ask Hannah!
Ask Hannah!
I recently told my wife of 16 years, about Rayne. She’s seems to be supportive, right now, and very confused, as I have been for almost 40 years, why I’m attracted to womens clothes. Nothing frilly, past that stage, I love the new styles, and I do have a desire to go in public. I … Continue reading Ask Hannah!
Her Journey
If there's anything I've learned after over ten years of blogging (do they still call it that anymore??) about crossdressing/transfeminity it's that we all have so much in common. Most of us "got started" very young when we became enamored with anything from pretty dresses to lingerie to makeup. Many of us didn't feel quite … Continue reading Her Journey