So many of us want to chat with others like us. We want FRIENDS. We want someone to talk to, we want someone to understand us, we want someone to hit the mall with. I get it. I mean, that need to connect with others like myself was a huge part of starting the MN … Continue reading Our Place in the Alphabet
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Taking Care
As many of you know, I am a huge advocate when it comes to seeking help from professionals. Want to learn makeup? Schedule a lesson with a makeup artist. Need to know your cup and band size? Get a bra fitting. Asking for help in ANYTHING isn't easy as it usually requires us to move … Continue reading Taking Care
Walls
The process of transforming this tired and overwhelmed middle-aged body into Hannah is, well, a process. After shaving (everywhere), I more or less start with a blank canvas. It's like my appearance could go in any number of directions. I might be getting ready to spend the day en femme, I might be putting on … Continue reading Walls
Merry and Bright and Fabulous
This weekend was the final MN T-Girl event of the year. And! It was the return to how we normally celebrate the holidays since the last two years were impacted by COVID. When I say normal, what I mean is the night was filled with pretty girls, beautiful dresses, and lots of girl talk. We … Continue reading Merry and Bright and Fabulous
Nine Years and Counting
The MN T-Girls have our final event of 2022 this weekend. I am in the beginning stages of planning events for the upcoming year and it's not always easy. Some monthly events are a given, such as the annual Halloween party in October (obviously) and Pride in June. We have an annual photo shoot and … Continue reading Nine Years and Counting
Someone Like You
We are all unique. And yes! That is a cliché. But! That doesn't mean it's not true. Every gender non-conforming person is different. I am transgender, you probably are as well. But while I have no desire to transition, you might be legally changing your name today. The scope of who we are and what … Continue reading Someone Like You
Let’s Talk About Pants
Or! If you live across the pond, let's talk about trousers. I am forever a dress and skirt girl. I do wear leggings in boy mode and I've modeled, ah, non-pants for En Femme. Wait, I did wear leggings (pink, obviously) in girl mode for a yoga class the MN T-Girls did earlier this year … Continue reading Let’s Talk About Pants
The Click
Hi! I need your help! I get a lot of emails from girls like me, from people like you, from crossdressers AND from partners, spouses, and significant others about relationships with a non-cis gender person. Most of these emails are about two people trying to understand or trying to explain this side of us to … Continue reading The Click
The Pink Rule
Hi girls! Thanksgiving week is always weird. For most of us it's a short work week. Additionally most of us are also likely traveling or preparing a meal or dreading seeing certain family members. Whatever you are doing, or whatever you had to do, I hope it went by as well as it could! In … Continue reading The Pink Rule
You Can’t Always Get What You Want
I get messages through my website and from time to time I see that the provided address to receive a reply is very likely fake. But I usually respond and in almost every instance my instinct was correct and the email is bounced back. It's possible the address had a typo in it but my … Continue reading You Can’t Always Get What You Want