I keep my Twitter Direct Messages open because I love getting notes from guys where the only thing they have to say is “hi”.
This is sarcasm.
But seriously, I do enjoy getting messages from other t-girls and making new friends. Most messages from boys consist of pictures of their stupid penis or “WYD”. Please stop doing these things.
Over the last week I have gotten several messages where the guy says something along the lines of “OMG ur so hot and I am straight but ur beautiful”.
So, let’s talk about this.
First of all, I am not interested in guys, even if I wasn’t married.
Secondly, Hannah is a GIRL. If you think I am cute or whatever then you think a GIRL is cute.
If you are a boy and you think a girl is cute that is about as straight as it gets.
Telling a t-girl (t-girls are girls!) that you think she is cute despite the fact you are straight tells me that you look at t-girls as boys dressed up as a girl. Perhaps you are not consciously doing that, but please remember that being attracted to a t-girl is being attracted to a girl.
And really, get over yourself. Sexuality, like gender, can be fluid and complex.
I didn’t spend $70 on a makeover and dedicated years learning how to strut in stilettos for some dude to think of me as a boy.