I have a 45”bust and a 42”waist, what dress size would you suggest? Every dress is different. Every store, designer, website is different. I am a size 12 with Dress Barn, I am a size L with En Femme. If you shop online you'll often see a size chart similar to the one below: As … Continue reading Ask Hannah!
Month: May 2021
The Thrill is Never Gone
As much as I care and write about deconstructing gender roles and fighting (in my own way) for transequality, I still, and will always, want to look as femme as possible. And this is a really good time to reassert that there are no standards one must meet in order to be a girl, to … Continue reading The Thrill is Never Gone
Black and White and Red Polka Dots All Over
Hi! I am excited to start sharing pictures from my recent "Because I'm Alive" photo shoot from earlier this month. This was the first outfit I wore and I think it's a totally cute dress. What makes the dress even more adorable are the matching heels I paired it with. These pictures were taken at … Continue reading Black and White and Red Polka Dots All Over
Forgetting to Remember
Sometimes I forget I am trans.And that's good! Before I was ready to leave the house en femme I was certain that everyone I would see, and everyone that would see me, would be thinking "OMG that's a man" or "look, it's a trans-girl". I knew that as someone as tall as I am would … Continue reading Forgetting to Remember
Alluring T-Girls!
Saturday was the monthly MN T-Girls outing and we enjoyed a night at Allure, an upscale lingerie store for a private shopping party. This was our third event at Allure and like the previous events the girls had an opportunity to get a bra fitting as well as shop for beautiful lingerie in a safe … Continue reading Alluring T-Girls!
Beautiful Secret
Hi! Just a reminder that just because many of us have to keep this side of us a secret (for various reasons), it does not mean that there's anything "wrong" with who we are. It can be, well, soul crushing at times to go through so much effort to be discreet. We go to great lengths to … Continue reading Beautiful Secret
Do It Herself
Transformation salons are wonderful.For those who don't know what a transformation salon/studio is, it's where a girl like us can go to get what is commonly referred to as a "male to female transformation". Some studios offer photography services, provide clothes, wigs, and some even offer a night on the town, or at the very least, … Continue reading Do It Herself
Two Souls
Aristotle said that a friend is a single soul dwelling in two bodies. What would he say about someone who is bi-gender? I refer to my other gender almost as a separate person. When I am in boy mode I will talk to my wife as if Hannah is her own human. "Hannah has her … Continue reading Two Souls
Ask Hannah!
I've only just started to crossdress and was wondering what to use to hide my bulge in my pants. Also, is there an easy alternative option to using glue for false lashes? I want to venture outside and I know I will have to go to somewhere where I'm not known but I'm nervous. How … Continue reading Ask Hannah!
We Are Not Alone
Although the word would later seemingly represent fetishism, learning that there were so many others like myself that there was a word for us was incredibly reassuring. That word, of course, was crossdresser. I never, EVER thought there was something "wrong" with me or with wanting to wear lingerie and dresses, but I knew that … Continue reading We Are Not Alone