Ask Hannah!

i want to learn how to be a woman

I get this Ask Hannah! question, is, or variations of it, from time to time (well, ALL the time).

And to be honest I have no idea how to answer them.

Essentially it comes to what you feel you need to do in order for your whole BEING to align with your gender identity.

For some of us, we NEED a vagina to be a woman. For some of us, we need to LEGALLY be a woman. For some of us our legal status or our anatomy have nothing to do with our gender identity.

If you feel your gender identity is different than the one you were assigned to at birth, then your magical journey of hard work and dysphoria will begin. It is up to YOU to decide what your gender identity means to you and what you feel needs to be done in order for you to be at peace with your gender.

Depending on the steps you feel you need to take, you may need to schedule an appointment with your doctor and/or a therapist specializing in gender.

Love, Hannah

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2 thoughts on “Ask Hannah!

  1. I’ve always felt that observation is one of the best ways to help in being a women in public
    Just find a place to sit and watch the cis women go by.
    A mall is a great place and there you can see how women act or react and talk and gesture
    I had someone give me that advice and it helped
    Am I always perfect oh absolutely not, cis women have had way more practice then all of us

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  2. There, of course, is more than one way to “be a woman.” I know many women, and most of them are very different. Some women aren’t even very feminine (nor do they want to be). For me, I have accepted that I will never BE a woman, but I love feminine things and wearing clothes designed for women and even presenting a feminine image. Nancy

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