We are all unique. And yes! That is a cliché. But! That doesn't mean it's not true. Every gender non-conforming person is different. I am transgender, you probably are as well. But while I have no desire to transition, you might be legally changing your name today. The scope of who we are and what … Continue reading Someone Like You
Month: November 2022
Let’s Talk About Pants
Or! If you live across the pond, let's talk about trousers. I am forever a dress and skirt girl. I do wear leggings in boy mode and I've modeled, ah, non-pants for En Femme. Wait, I did wear leggings (pink, obviously) in girl mode for a yoga class the MN T-Girls did earlier this year … Continue reading Let’s Talk About Pants
Rebel, Sweetheart
Goodness this website has had some heavy topics lately, hasn't it? When I started my first website alllll those years ago I wanted to celebrate this side of us. I wanted to talk about how amazing and fun crossdressing and presenting en femme is. I love reading about the lives and journeys of other t-girls. … Continue reading Rebel, Sweetheart
The Click
Hi! I need your help! I get a lot of emails from girls like me, from people like you, from crossdressers AND from partners, spouses, and significant others about relationships with a non-cis gender person. Most of these emails are about two people trying to understand or trying to explain this side of us to … Continue reading The Click
The Pink Rule
Hi girls! Thanksgiving week is always weird. For most of us it's a short work week. Additionally most of us are also likely traveling or preparing a meal or dreading seeing certain family members. Whatever you are doing, or whatever you had to do, I hope it went by as well as it could! In … Continue reading The Pink Rule
Bye Bye Birdie
I am fascinated by sinking ships. Not real, literal, actual sinking ships, but the period of time watching... something fall apart. Something slowing sinking below the waves, never to be the same again. The end days of something. I've had jobs where the office was going to be relocated halfway across the country and the … Continue reading Bye Bye Birdie
You Can’t Always Get What You Want
I get messages through my website and from time to time I see that the provided address to receive a reply is very likely fake. But I usually respond and in almost every instance my instinct was correct and the email is bounced back. It's possible the address had a typo in it but my … Continue reading You Can’t Always Get What You Want
Fuel
By now we have all heard of the horrific attack at Q, an LGBTQ+ nightclub in Colorado. It's absolutely shocking and frightening and it's all too common. The reality that this happens at all is infuriating. Patrons of Q have said that it's one of the few places someone who is queer can go in … Continue reading Fuel
Announcing the Hannah!
This side of us has dreams and desires that are wildly different than what many people in our male lives (if we have one) would ever guess. I mean, I can't imagine my coworkers would ever even begin to speculate that one of my life goals is to be a bridesmaid. A while ago I … Continue reading Announcing the Hannah!
Set Your Phasers to Stun…
...because yesterday's MN T-Girl photo shoot will leave you speechless! I recently wrote how the professional photo shoot we do each year is one of my favorite events because it's a peek inside someone's soul... and their closet. Yesterday absolutely proved that as the girls were princesses and beauty queens. It was wonderful. Five t-girls … Continue reading Set Your Phasers to Stun…