I don't have many memories of my dad when he wasn't yelling at me or my siblings or my mom or the television or a neighbor or a piece of mail or the dog or anyone that just happened to cross his path. Don't worry, this post isn't as heavy as the opening sentence is … Continue reading A Son and a Daughter
Month: January 2023
Keg and Case and Stilettos
This past Saturday was the first MN T-Girls event of the year! This November we will be celebrating our ten year anniversary and my goal for 2023 is to have as many new events for the group as possible. I mean, we'll still have many of our normal adventures like attending Pride and our holiday … Continue reading Keg and Case and Stilettos
Okay, Real Quick
Okay real quick... If you are out en femme and someone sees you as "a dude in a dress" or thinks "that's a man", fuck them. I mean, don't sleep with them, but fuck them. Of course, you won't ever know what anyone is thinking but that's beside the point. Here's the thing. I don't … Continue reading Okay, Real Quick
The Wind
I don't think I've been out in the real world much lately. En femme, that is. The last few months have been chaotic between settling into our new house, work, and the holidays. Hannah's recent outings have all been with the MN T-Girls for our Halloween party, holiday party, and annual photo shoot. These events … Continue reading The Wind
I Have a Question
Just... throwing something out here. IF I were to do a video series about, well, all (or just some) of this, what would you like to see? I spent way too much time on this stupid image I have resisted doing video for a lonnnnng time but every once in a while I think a … Continue reading I Have a Question
Jazzin’ it Up
Oh, hi! I've had a lot of wordy posts lately and I think we're overdue for some pictures to jazz things up. So, here is a preview of the pictures from the recent photo shoot with the MN T-Girls. The first three outfits are from En Femme and the fourth outfit I found on Amazon. … Continue reading Jazzin’ it Up
A Mile in Stilettos
As someone who has presented as a cis gender man for much of my life, and as someone who still does most of the time, I am usually unaware of the privilege that this offers me. And yes, I know some men argue that they don't have any sort of privilege and to be honest … Continue reading A Mile in Stilettos
Sexy But Not Sexual
From time to time I get a little uninspired by what is in my wardrobe or on my Amazon wish list when it comes to outfits for a photo shoot. Sometimes I'll ask others for suggestions on Twitter and usually the responses are either pretty vague or, well, very specific. The ambiguity is usually along … Continue reading Sexy But Not Sexual
The Prevailing Eroticism of Who we Are
I didn't know it was a fetish. Honestly. And in retrospect this sounds incredibly naïve but realizing that for some of us wearing lingerie is kinky was pretty earth-shattering. I suppose that sounds very dramatic. To clarify, yes, wearing lingerie is often associated with sexy time and sexy time is, well, sexy but just simply … Continue reading The Prevailing Eroticism of Who we Are
Dress Up Doll
Sometimes I let myself fall down the rabbit hole of what all of THIS is about. It's not a path I go down very often anymore. I am who I am and this is what it is. But sometimes I am reminded a lot of THIS has a lot to do about the clothes, lol. … Continue reading Dress Up Doll