I came out to my wife in May 2021. One year later, we are now separated. She also outted me to her parents. I feel like a big part of me has been ripped out. We are still married. My wife says that I can move back, but I have to never dress again. I … Continue reading Ask Hannah!
New En Femme Blog!
My new article for En Femme is live! New in the Learning Center: Hannah! Our resident expert, Hannah McKnight, has posted her latest blog to the Learning Center: Change Your Gender, Change Your World, Part 1. In this latest series, Hannah gets personal on how her gender identity has shaped her world and how she … Continue reading New En Femme Blog!
How It Starts
Good morning! I know some people visit this site to talk about panties and look at photos and ask for help finding heels that fit. I get it. I write a lot about lingerie and clothes and I post a LOT of pictures. And! I also write a lot about the importance of mental health … Continue reading How It Starts
Wardrobe Malfunctions
I bought a dress last month and I knew it was too short. But! there are some dresses (and heels, if I am being honest) that I will or won't wear depending on how much sitting, standing, or walking I will be doing. This particular dress was perfect in so many ways. It fit, which … Continue reading Wardrobe Malfunctions
Gender, Coffee, and the Big Bang
My mind races constantly. I have a zillion thoughts each day. It's exhausting. I wish I could just kind of zone out and take a break but my brain is always telling me to DO something, even if it's just to THINK about something. Sometimes these thoughts are introspective. And I bet you have these … Continue reading Gender, Coffee, and the Big Bang
En Femme Photo Shoot!
Yesterday I did a photo shoot for En Femme where I'll be reviewing a few items. It was a fun shoot and I can't wait to ramble on and on and on about skirts and dresses. As always, Shannonlee was a delight to work with and I can't wait to see how her photos turn … Continue reading En Femme Photo Shoot!
Ask Hannah!
I really enjoy reading your website and remember back when you includedyour drawings about your life and observations in the trans world.I'd love to see and read those again, did you publish a collection?They brought a new, unique and wonderful perspective on many of the joys and challenges we all face. Before I started this … Continue reading Ask Hannah!
Why Can’t I?
When I start to change my gender presentation from BOY to GIRL, I really never know how the "process" will go. Sometimes the dress I picked out doesn't look as cute as I thought it would, sometimes my stockings get a run, sometimes my foundation won't blend. Obviously this is frustrating and on some levels … Continue reading Why Can’t I?
Ask Hannah!
Do you ever think about resurrecting the T-Girl Spotlight? I always enjoyed these mini interviews. I haven't retired the spotlight, but I admit I haven't been maintaining it as well as I should. I don't spend as much time as I should or could looking for new t-girls that I would like to feature. So! … Continue reading Ask Hannah!
Gatekeeping
Oh, hi! The other day I posted a Ask Hannah question and it certainly inspired a lot of comments and emails. A lot of what I was reading was really interesting and I wanted to chat about it a little. For some, crossdressing (and I am using my own definition and perspective of what crossdressing … Continue reading Gatekeeping