As much as I hate the term "journey" to describe our progress when it comes to our gender identity, I have to begrudgingly admit it's also the most fitting. Like any journey or adventure (hmm, maybe adventure is a better word?), our paths are fraught with peril, milestones, setbacks, and accomplishments. Some aspects of our journey will … Continue reading Holiday Wish
The absolute worst feeling in the world is DREAD. Leaving work on a Friday knowing you have a BAD meeting scheduled for Monday ruins your whole weekend. At least mine will be ruined, not everyone is inflicted with the level of anxiety I get to deal with. On the flip (and more positive) side, the … Continue reading Restless Peace
I am fortunate to have a fulfilling (although stressful and anxiety inducing) career. I am fortunate to have (as far as I know, lol) stability at my job. AND! I am fortunate to work at home (even outside of this global pandemic). Not having to wake up super early to drive in the snow to … Continue reading Working Girl
In case you haven't noticed or are perhaps living under a rock, it's the holiday season. Even if you don't celebrate or recognize any of the holidays that occur in December, it's hard to not be impacted by them. Work comes to a grinding halt, the shops are busier, and everyone is stressed. It's exhausting. … Continue reading They Can’t Take That Away From Me
I have felt for a long time now that I am a woman trapped inside a man's body and feel it`s time to unleash my feelings and experiment with a new chapter in my life and to release that real feminine lady into the world that I am craving to do. I am fully prepared … Continue reading Ask Hannah!
Presenting en femme is empowering and absolutely humbling. There's nothing like spending hours doing your makeup and putting on a new dress and feeling excited to see a gorgeous girl in the mirror... And then it all falls apart. Our maleness stubbornly appears beneath our foundation, our masculine shoulders aren't minimized by the pattern on … Continue reading A Humble Thank You
I have come out to my wife but she finds it hard to deal with, I feel I can dress up when she is out but I wonder if there is anything I can do to make it easier for her, It would be nice for her to accept me. One of the most frustrating … Continue reading Ask Hannah!
I have a few friends that are transitioning. I don't see them as often as I would like but when I do it's usually been a few months since our last visit. Over time their transitions have progressed and estrogen, t-blockers, and lasering have done their job and there's a noticeable difference in their appearance. Although … Continue reading Two Reflections
I don't write about sex tooooo often. I don't think there's much overlap with gender identity and sexuality but I totes get that some do. And! I totally have reluctantly accepted that fetishization of the trans community is not going away anytime soon or... ever. That being said, I am still a little surprised that … Continue reading Moving On Up!
Is there a travel site or travel agent for crossdressers? I would like to take a vacation where I know there are others who are like me. No matter how we identify or what we like to wear or where we are in our life and journey, the thing we all have in common is that … Continue reading Ask Hannah!
Hannah McKnight 