What advice (if any) would you give to someone about coming out to a close personal friend that has only ever known you in male mode? Does dealing with the current world situation mean that maybe now is not the time to even consider this? This pandemic is impacting EVERYTHING and it is certainly impacting … Continue reading Ask Hannah!
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I Hear You
I do my best to help girls like us. Sometimes it's being asked about makeup or where to find heels in their size, but I get just as many questions and emails about the more difficult and emotional and serious side of who we are. I try to be gentle and direct and honest. Many of … Continue reading I Hear You
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I live in Casper Wyoming and am trying to find a good gender therapist. I am currently seeing a psychologist that said she handled gender issues, but I really get the feeling she is just guessing at how to handle things.If I look on the internet, there are several people who claim to be gender … Continue reading Ask Hannah!
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I have been crossdressing for years and loving every minute and I am older now and would like to meet another girl, whom to have fun with, travel, shop, make-up…… You get the idea, I'm not a night girl any longer and just don't know where to meet other girls during the day. This virus … Continue reading Ask Hannah!
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I'm a feminine gay man and wear a lot of women's clothing to express my femininity (I've never met a pair of sandals I didn't like), but not to "present" myself as a woman. It's hard finding other feminine gay men even online. Not only do straight men hate us, but so do masculine gay … Continue reading Ask Hannah!
T-Girl Support in Wisconsin
As important as I think it is to find heels and dresses and lingerie that fit (and I think this is really important), I think that finding support and friendship is just as crucial. A random thought. I know it's shallow to put panties and stilettos as equal to support for girls like us, but … Continue reading T-Girl Support in Wisconsin
Stuck Inside on Coming Out
Yesterday was National Coming Out Day. Like everything else in 2020 this really snuck up on me. I have been who I am for a long time and my gender identity has evolved over the years and I am, for lack of a better term, used to who I am. I have a remarkable life … Continue reading Stuck Inside on Coming Out
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I am making a contact sheet of resources for a friend of mine that cross dresses. Is there any resources you would highly recommend? Mental health, books to read, people to watch on YouTube or to follow on social media. He’s not looking for forums or dating sites, and that’s all I really come up … Continue reading Ask Hannah!
In the Wee Small Hours of the Morning
Our heart's desires come out after midnight. When my wife and I were learning more about my gender identity, we would have these amazing, vulnerable conversations late at night (and often early into the morning) about how I felt, how she felt, and, well, about clothes and makeup. These talks were often accompanied by a bottle … Continue reading In the Wee Small Hours of the Morning
Acceptance and Embracing
We know that "society" will never "accept" us. We can't wait for "them" to let us know that crossdressing or wanting to wear a dress or lipstick or whatever we have tucked away in our dresser drawers or hidden in our closets is okay. Acceptance of who we are comes from ourselves. Some of us … Continue reading Acceptance and Embracing