This ISN'T "political" I write a LOT about staying safe as a t-girl. This can cover a LOT of different things, such as how to safely wear a gaff, what to have in your purse, or how to stay vigilant in public when we are en femme. There are things that threaten us other than … Continue reading Walking Backwards
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Another Self-Indulgent Photo Shoot
I've heard that a need is a really strong want. And I think there's a lot of truth to that. For example, two weeks ago I realized I needed a photo shoot. But in a less dramatic and in a more realistic perspective, I didn't NEED one. I did WANT one, though. I am seasoning … Continue reading Another Self-Indulgent Photo Shoot
Ask Hannah!
Wife and I been together for 10 years. She has always known I have dressed. Recently I brought up that I would like to take things further and start wearing norm day clothes, a wig and makeup. My wife says she wants to grow with me but is very reserved. How can I talk to … Continue reading Ask Hannah!
Missing the Point
I will never claim to speak for the ENTIRE t-girl or crossdressing or non-binary or transgender community. I will never try to either. I think it's insane to think that anyone COULD or that anyone DOES. I do write about a lot of different things. My writings generally fall into a few different categories of … Continue reading Missing the Point
Why Having a Crossdressing Husband is the Most Stressful Thing EVER
Okay, fasten your garter belts, this is a loooong one. Look, if I have a, hm, a mission statement when it comes to my website is that I try to be supportive, realistic, and honest. I feel I am fairly self-aware and not oblivious to how who we are impacts our lives and the relationships … Continue reading Why Having a Crossdressing Husband is the Most Stressful Thing EVER
Sexual Identity and Gender Identity
It's amazing (and reassuring) how many of us have the same thoughts, experiences, and feelings as one another. Almost all of us have had some sort of... awakening at an early age where we discovered that there was a part of us that was fascinated by and drawn to certain clothes or wanting to wear … Continue reading Sexual Identity and Gender Identity
It’s All About the Shoes
It's super fun to plan an outfit for going out. Sometimes I look forward to wearing a new dress or deciding what to wear for a specific occasion, whether it's running errands or something faaaaancy. I like to wear an outfit that is appropriate what I will be doing or where I will be going. … Continue reading It’s All About the Shoes
Saturdays are for Coffee, Errands, and Yoga
Yesterday was the April MN T-Girls event and after almost ten years of monthly adventures it's not always easy to plan something unique. It was time for something fresh. I'm always thinking of new things for the group to do and I often get inspired by things that I would like to do en femme. … Continue reading Saturdays are for Coffee, Errands, and Yoga
La Femme Mystique Returns!
Specialty and dedicated services for girls like us are few and far between. I frequent salons allllll the time that generally cater to cis-women. I have had many makeovers from Ulta, MAC, and Sephora and while it's true I may be the only t-girl in a chair getting her makeup done at any given time, … Continue reading La Femme Mystique Returns!
High Heels and Shallow Thoughts
The internet is a wonderful, horrible tool. On one hand I am able to buy anything from books to panties to food from my couch. On the other hand we are connected 24/7 with everything and everyone and we are expected to be reachable all the time. Going online is a godsend for girls like … Continue reading High Heels and Shallow Thoughts
Hannah McKnight 