HI! Some of us don’t like tucking. I get it. It’s not easy to do properly and if not done correctly it can hurt.
Pain and feeling uncomfortable is your body’s way of saying STOP DOING THIS. If your heels hurt your feet (I mean, they probably will after a few hours, I’m talking about immediately and with every step) or if your gaff is paining you, you should probably wear something else.
I wear gaffs and I love them. They took some time getting used to and I have a few recommendations, especially a new style from The Breast Form Store (proper review coming later) but I wanted to bring to your attention a panty that I recently bought that I think those of us who don’t tuck might be interested in.
I wear tight dresses, but our, ah, feminine flaw can be visible no matter how tight or loose the dress or skirt or pants are. If tucking isn’t for you, I would recommend looking into the White Lace Classy Thong, part of the Carmen Liu line of lingerie sold through En Femme.
This panty is not a gaff, but it does flatten and smoooooth things. Like, really flattens and smooth things. Like, really, REALLY flattens and smooths things.
It takes a little getting used to, and it moves comfortably with your body, and it is tight. Of course, not everyone likes thongs so there is that as well. The sizing chart is very true to form so make sure you know your measurements before purchasing.