In the evening when you see my eyesLooking back at you, no disguiseI'm not sure who you think you'll seeI'm just hoping you'll still know that it's me Oh - what if it's trueBetter ask the man insideOh, oh - there seem to be two -Jackson Browne Whether you identify as a crossdresser, as gender … Continue reading Still Me But Not Really
Month: April 2021
The First Time
I get a lot of emails about going out for the first time en femme and what my experience was. I've written about it here and there but I think it's time for a full recap of that day. Buckle up and fasten your garter belt, this is going to be a looooong one. When I … Continue reading The First Time
Beauty and Choices
There are zillions (I MIGHT be exaggerating here) of unknowables when it comes this side of us, when it comes to who we are. I'll never know why we are who we are and that's okay. I don't need to know and really, it wouldn't make a difference one way or the other. I feel … Continue reading Beauty and Choices
Painful and Beautiful
We call ourselves different things as we live our lives. Its not uncommon to identify as a crossdresser only to find that transgender is a better fit. Or bi-gender. Or genderqueer. Or agender. Or... uh, something else. At first these are the names we say to ourselves. We think to ourselves "I am a crossdresser" … Continue reading Painful and Beautiful
The Visible T-Girl
I need a break from (gestures all around) all this. No, not from writing or being on social media. I need a break from the seemingly unending string of anti-trans legislation. There are currently over 80 bills being discussed right now across the country ranging from health care to participation in sports to a business' "right" … Continue reading The Visible T-Girl
The Return of the MN T-Girls Again
Yesterday was the first MN T-Girls meeting since November. We took a pause due to COVID but now that the weather is warmer (for Minnesota in April, anyway) I felt it was safe(r) to resume our monthly adventures This was our second return as we took our first COVID pause last March and returned (for … Continue reading The Return of the MN T-Girls Again
Candy Store Sneak Peek
I recently wrote about The Candy Store, a v sneak peek video
Secrets of MtF Cross-Dressing
My friend Sybil is hosting a crossdressing workshop at Bondesque in Minneapolis on Tuesday, April 20th! Sybil Minnelli is a long time cross-dresser, balancing her kink lifestyle with a vanilla family and work life. She'll teach you her secrets of cross-dressing, how she balances dual lives, and how she switches her presentation between casual, passable, … Continue reading Secrets of MtF Cross-Dressing
New En Femme Blog!
My new blog for En Femme is live! The latest article with blogger, trans-activist and fashionista, Hannah McKnight is now available in our Learning Center! Hannah's blog discusses more in-depth her life as a self-described T-girl. Hannah's newest article is the third part in a series about starting out crossdressing and exploring gender, identity and labels: "Crossdressing 101." In this installment, … Continue reading New En Femme Blog!
They’re Not Real, and They’re Spectacular
Okay, this is my last post about my most recent photo shoot (just in time because I have another one in a few weeks). This was an emotional shoot and I dipped my stiletto into new waters which was nerve-wracking and empowering and humbling all at the same time. I was all over the map when … Continue reading They’re Not Real, and They’re Spectacular
Hannah McKnight 