I totally understand not feeling ready to go out en femme. We all have been there, these hesitations are fueled by all the what-if's that could happen. The fears, the anxieties, the uncertainties. Will people point? Will people laugh? Will people be cruel? Will you see someone you know? Will you shake so much that … Continue reading The What-Ifs
Yesterday the MN T-Girls had our monthly event and it was so much fun! We spent the afternoon at Creative Hair Design in Roseville, Minnesota. Creative Hair Design sells wigs, toppers, hair pieces, and hair extensions. The timing was perfect as I am waaaay overdue for a new 'do. We were treated to a private … Continue reading Cute and Creative!
I ignore emails and direct messages that are sexually charged. When I post photos there is usually some reaction along the lines of likes and comments. This is not to say that I'll post a photo and then it goes viral or whatever because of how AMAZING I look. This is not to say that … Continue reading Sorry, not Sorry
I came out to my wife in May 2021. One year later, we are now separated. She also outted me to her parents. I feel like a big part of me has been ripped out. We are still married. My wife says that I can move back, but I have to never dress again. I … Continue reading Ask Hannah!
My new article for En Femme is live! New in the Learning Center: Hannah! Our resident expert, Hannah McKnight, has posted her latest blog to the Learning Center: Change Your Gender, Change Your World, Part 1. In this latest series, Hannah gets personal on how her gender identity has shaped her world and how she … Continue reading New En Femme Blog!
Good morning! I know some people visit this site to talk about panties and look at photos and ask for help finding heels that fit. I get it. I write a lot about lingerie and clothes and I post a LOT of pictures. And! I also write a lot about the importance of mental health … Continue reading How It Starts
I bought a dress last month and I knew it was too short. But! there are some dresses (and heels, if I am being honest) that I will or won't wear depending on how much sitting, standing, or walking I will be doing. This particular dress was perfect in so many ways. It fit, which … Continue reading Wardrobe Malfunctions
My mind races constantly. I have a zillion thoughts each day. It's exhausting. I wish I could just kind of zone out and take a break but my brain is always telling me to DO something, even if it's just to THINK about something. Sometimes these thoughts are introspective. And I bet you have these … Continue reading Gender, Coffee, and the Big Bang
Yesterday I did a photo shoot for En Femme where I'll be reviewing a few items. It was a fun shoot and I can't wait to ramble on and on and on about skirts and dresses. As always, Shannonlee was a delight to work with and I can't wait to see how her photos turn … Continue reading En Femme Photo Shoot!
I really enjoy reading your website and remember back when you includedyour drawings about your life and observations in the trans world.I'd love to see and read those again, did you publish a collection?They brought a new, unique and wonderful perspective on many of the joys and challenges we all face. Before I started this … Continue reading Ask Hannah!
Hannah McKnight 