...but here we go. My birthday was last month and the Christmas holiday is approaching. I have gotten emails from people who read my website who, well, want to do something nice for me. And I am honestly touched by this offer. Some of these offers are meant to be in gratitude, and some are, … Continue reading I Feel Weird About This
Month: December 2022
What’s So Funny About Peace, Love, and Underdressing?
Most of us discover this part of ourselves early in our lives. Like, EARLY in our lives, usually in childhood. I think most of who we are as adults is formed in that time. I mean, they are called our formative years for a reason, right? When I was a child I didn't think I … Continue reading What’s So Funny About Peace, Love, and Underdressing?
Walls
The process of transforming this tired and overwhelmed middle-aged body into Hannah is, well, a process. After shaving (everywhere), I more or less start with a blank canvas. It's like my appearance could go in any number of directions. I might be getting ready to spend the day en femme, I might be putting on … Continue reading Walls
It is What it is But it’s Not What it Seems
I'm sure we all feel this way but I wish I could switch my brain off. Like, give it a rest, stupid. Can you just be quiet for five minutes? I tend to overthink and when I do (which is all the time) I start to speculate what COULD happen and then I start down … Continue reading It is What it is But it’s Not What it Seems
Walking Around in Women’s Underwear
The holidays are here and the world is doing everything it can to remind us. DO YOUR SHOPPING! VISIT THE RELATIVES THAT YOU HATE! MAX OUT YOUR CREDIT CARDS! Each year I try to use the end of year festivities as a chance to rest and recuperate. Of course that never happens. Work holiday parties … Continue reading Walking Around in Women’s Underwear
No Clever Title, Just a Thank You
As the year winds down (wait, IS the year winding down? It feels like it's been plummeting towards the ground and is moments away from impact) it's not uncommon to see Top Ten Lists of THINGS. Like the year's best movies or what have you. Honestly? I love these. I heart things like Spotify Wrapped, … Continue reading No Clever Title, Just a Thank You
Light and Breezy
My goodness yesterday's post was long and heavy, wasn't it? When I have a long and introspective post like that it's a result of writing off and on for several days, editing, rewriting, and then finally posting. Since this is done over a few days I don't really realize just how long a post really … Continue reading Light and Breezy
Obsession and Possession
I am hesitant to write about certain things because of the type of comments and emails I get when it comes to some topics. This post discusses two things that tend to generate a lot of interaction that... kind of misses the point I am trying to make. The first is talking about men (and … Continue reading Obsession and Possession
Merry and Bright and Fabulous
This weekend was the final MN T-Girl event of the year. And! It was the return to how we normally celebrate the holidays since the last two years were impacted by COVID. When I say normal, what I mean is the night was filled with pretty girls, beautiful dresses, and lots of girl talk. We … Continue reading Merry and Bright and Fabulous
Nice.
I THINK this is the third year in a row where my website was named one of the Top 100 Sex Blogs of the year by Molly's Daily Kiss. AND! I have the coveted #69 spot on it. Nice. There are some really good sites on this list that focus on non-binary people so even … Continue reading Nice.