We ask ourselves why we are like this. Our partners ask us why we are like this. It's just... how we're wired. We're just born this way. I do not think gender identity is a choice. It's just who we are. I believe this side of us is a part of us when we are born. … Continue reading Maybe She’s Born with It (or maybe it’s genetics)
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Any advice on a first night out en femme? Going out for the first time is a life-changing experience. And I don't say that lightly. I felt so many things my first real time out en femme. I was scared beyond belief. My nerves were a wreck, my legs trembled, I was jumpy, I was excited. … Continue reading Ask Hannah!
Ask Hannah!
I’m interested in cross dressing but how can I hid my male parts? You could tuck, but I prefer a gaff. Wearing a gaff does require a little tucking, but a gaff makes it easier to do so. I wear gaffs from The Breast Form Store and En Femme. You can read my thoughts and … Continue reading Ask Hannah!
It’s Usually a Wonderful World
I know, SO MANY Ask Hannah posts lately! lol When I started a website years ago I wondered if anyone would read it or if anyone would care. When people started to comment and subscribe it was, well, it was thrilling. It was also incredibly gratifying. I was never sure if people would relate to … Continue reading It’s Usually a Wonderful World
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I've been crossdressing for years and love each time I get all dolled up. I have been finding it hard to go out and meet other CD's. Are there places to go in the Twin Cites where a t-girl can meet another t-girl without going to a bar? The short answer is no. T-girls don't … Continue reading Ask Hannah!
Ask Hannah!
When I'm en femme I fantasize about being with a man. I'm not gay, so is this normal ? I would never, ever tell someone what their sexual identity is, so I hope you're not looking for a definitive answer. This is something only you can answer. When we come out to someone, one of … Continue reading Ask Hannah!
Ask Hannah!
I have hairy legs, when I shave should I us ordinary shaving soap or something else. What do you recommend please? The first time I shaved my legs was... well, it took forever. Years and years of hair growth took a long time to reverse. Were I to go back and shave for the first … Continue reading Ask Hannah!
Ask Hannah!
Do you have any insights/precautions about people like us making friends in the online community? The obvious is to be careful about identifiable information about our male side and location of where we live, are there more to this? Like so many parts of our lives, it's important we don't get lost in the pink … Continue reading Ask Hannah!
Ask Hannah!
Have you ever been hit on( approached by ) a man while en femme in a serious manner for a date or just to buy you a drink? I know you don't drink now, but someone may still ask. If so, how did you handle the situation? Have you ever flirted with a guy just … Continue reading Ask Hannah!
The Devil and the Deep Blue Sea
I came across a video that was floating around Twitter the other day. It starred a young woman, probably in her twenties, talking about her experiences as a trans girl. And she was gorgeous. I mean, obviously. All women are. Sometimes I see another t-girl and I'm like yeah! I'm trans too! T-girl power! … Continue reading The Devil and the Deep Blue Sea