Which style of panties are best for a crossdresser to wear for comfort and feeling femme? Anyone who wears panties will have a different perspective on this question. Ultimately what you feel is comfortable and feminine is completely up to you. But since you asked... In my opinion, I prefer panties that are designed for … Continue reading Ask Hannah!
You Say You Want A Revolution
I am a meticulous planner. It drives my wife up to the wall sometimes and I absolutely understand why. I budget my time and I usually have my entire week planned out in advance. It's sometimes helpful however it usually drives ME up the wall as well, but it's how I'm wired. Like my gender … Continue reading You Say You Want A Revolution
Ask Hannah!
I'm trying to figure out how to dress the best I can, I have had a little practice but I would like some guidance Presenting en femme is... well, hm. It can mean a million tiny things. You need to be prepared mentally, emotionally and yes, financially. Crossdressing takes time, money, and patience. The first … Continue reading Ask Hannah!
Two Genders, Two Worlds
I think a lot of us can relate to the duality that our lives have. Of course there is the duality in gender identities. If I want to get overly specific, I identify as bi-gender. I have two sections in my closet, two different social media profiles, two different email addresses, two different lives. There … Continue reading Two Genders, Two Worlds
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Recently you have identified yourself as bi-gender or trans. If you wouldn't mind sharing, I would like to know how your wife identifies herself. I have always identified myself as straight until my husband, now wife, came out as trans. Now I am not sure what identifier I should use. Thanks for your assistance, and … Continue reading Ask Hannah!
Review: En Femme Wrap Dress!
I keep a lot of physical reminders from previous moments in my life. These could be ticket stubs from a concert or a small rock I picked up from when I saw the ocean for the first time. I associate objects with moments, even if the moment hasn't occurred yet. This is especially true when … Continue reading Review: En Femme Wrap Dress!
Staying Visible
Everything we do is brave. We are brave when we whisper to ourselves "I am transgender" or "I am a crossdresser". We are brave when we shyly walk through the lingerie department of a store. We are brave when we leave the house en femme. We are brave when we come out to someone. We … Continue reading Staying Visible
New En Femme Blog!
My new blog for En Femme is live! Change Your Gender, Change Your World Part 3 In the third and final installment of Change Your Gender, Change Your World, Hannah McKnight, our resident expert, describes the butterfly effect and how it can be used to understand the journey in accepting one's identity. Read the third and … Continue reading New En Femme Blog!
Materialistic Girl
The hill I will die on is that crossdressing takes time, money, and patience. Learning to strut in stilettos takes practice. Building a wardrobe isn't free. Mastering your makeup will take time. I get a lot of emails from t-girls and crossdressers who are frustrated that it's taking forever to learn how to blend their … Continue reading Materialistic Girl
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What do you think about the practice of indicating your pronouns (she/her/hers) after your name as is being advocated by many in the queer community? I, and I think like you, consider myself to be bi-gender or gender diverse (and a few other inadequate labels) I enjoy and am comfortable with my male persona but … Continue reading Ask Hannah!