I've heard that a need is a really strong want. And I think there's a lot of truth to that. For example, two weeks ago I realized I needed a photo shoot. But in a less dramatic and in a more realistic perspective, I didn't NEED one. I did WANT one, though. I am seasoning … Continue reading Another Self-Indulgent Photo Shoot
Tag: crossdressing
Ask Hannah!
Wife and I been together for 10 years. She has always known I have dressed. Recently I brought up that I would like to take things further and start wearing norm day clothes, a wig and makeup. My wife says she wants to grow with me but is very reserved. How can I talk to … Continue reading Ask Hannah!
Endlessly Daydreaming
When I became aware of this side of myself, it felt like the possibilities were endless. I've wanted to, and have been wearing "girl clothes" for as long as I can remember. At one point shoes were just shoes... until I saw a high heel and something just... clicked. I saw women wearing dresses and … Continue reading Endlessly Daydreaming
Corset Seasoning
The other day I started to season a corset. Seasoning a corset is, in a sense, breaking it in. However, it's not so much as getting your body to adapt to it, but more the other way around. There's a lot of ways you can wear a corset and they can help giving your body … Continue reading Corset Seasoning
Ask Hannah!
i am a long time closet cross dreser, my wife knows of me cross dressing, she has seen me dressing up and tells me when i can dress up. she has given me a dress that does not fit her or her friend, so she gave it to me thinking it would fit. yes, it … Continue reading Ask Hannah!
Missing the Point
I will never claim to speak for the ENTIRE t-girl or crossdressing or non-binary or transgender community. I will never try to either. I think it's insane to think that anyone COULD or that anyone DOES. I do write about a lot of different things. My writings generally fall into a few different categories of … Continue reading Missing the Point
Why Having a Crossdressing Husband is the Most Stressful Thing EVER
Okay, fasten your garter belts, this is a loooong one. Look, if I have a, hm, a mission statement when it comes to my website is that I try to be supportive, realistic, and honest. I feel I am fairly self-aware and not oblivious to how who we are impacts our lives and the relationships … Continue reading Why Having a Crossdressing Husband is the Most Stressful Thing EVER
You Never Can Tell
When I post on my website it's often about something I've been thinking about for a few days (or for a few years). Sometimes a post is about a recent adventure I had en femme. Sometimes it's a post about a dress I am reviewing. Sometimes a post can take a lot of effort as … Continue reading You Never Can Tell
Sexual Identity and Gender Identity
It's amazing (and reassuring) how many of us have the same thoughts, experiences, and feelings as one another. Almost all of us have had some sort of... awakening at an early age where we discovered that there was a part of us that was fascinated by and drawn to certain clothes or wanting to wear … Continue reading Sexual Identity and Gender Identity
It’s All About the Shoes
It's super fun to plan an outfit for going out. Sometimes I look forward to wearing a new dress or deciding what to wear for a specific occasion, whether it's running errands or something faaaaancy. I like to wear an outfit that is appropriate what I will be doing or where I will be going. … Continue reading It’s All About the Shoes